Well, the other day at home we were both having a drink together but we were not drunk by any means. A programme came on the television about men wearing their wife's underwear and my wife said it's like you and your tights. We got talking about me wearing tights and I made it clearer than I have previously that I like to wear tights purely for a sexual thrill and for no other reason, where as some of the gentlemen on the TV programme could have other reasons for wearing women's clothes and under wear other than purely sexual. This seemed to make sense to my wife and something seemed to click. I suspect previous to our chat she may have though me wearing tights could lead to me wanting to cross dress, which of course it would not. My wife has nothing against cross dressers by the way but not for her husband. To my delight my wife then shocked me and said - you have a day off work on Tuesday next week, why don't you put some tights on and enjoy yourself while I am at work. I then confessed to wanting to do housework wearing tights while she was working. She was genuinely delighted that the housework was getting done and said, you can wear tights for housework any time! She did say be careful in case anyone called round and I assured her I would.

I am very lucky and wish I'd had this chat years ago. Please think very carefully about saying such things to your wives and partners though, I have known good marriages go to the divorce court due to the husband wearing tights or panties etc.