I enjoy anything KINKY and always on the look out for new things to try.

I find it best to be up front with all my kinks, and then you will get to know me faster. I would love to find another partner like my deceased wife, but she will be a hard act to follow.

I'm now 60, 6'2", single and live just north of Eastbourne, in East Sussex. I am bi-sexual and like to extend my sex life by experimenting in new fields.

Health wise I am not HIV, I’m a non-smoker and I consider my self clean and expect the same. I am willing to try almost anything, but I do draw a line at the use of drugs, needles, drawing of blood, scat, and inflicting severe pain.

Before any playtime I like to have an enema, I should add it’s even better during playtime. I enjoy anything to do with cross dressing in rubber or ladies undies, baby clothes, plastic panties and nappies, very mild spanking, candle wax, stinging nettles, so much fun! Then there’s stuffing me with ice cubes, bananas, fruit and marshmallows. The joy of large and long dildos inside me is out of this world, and to be fisted, I’m in heaven! My dear wife before she departed used a strap-on, on me, which I really miss. Then there is Urethral play in which I insert chop sticks, yes all the way. ooooooooo. I keep myself shaved which allows me to use electro stimulation a great way to cum without touching yourself, although I have always controlled it my self, as you can get quite a kick out of it! Due to resent stress, I’m using Virgra, which I have found to be very good!

So to sum up my likes:-
· Dildos of any shape and size….I wonder how large a one I could be trained for?
· Being dressed in rubber.
· Being dressed in ladies undies, and a bit of make up.
· Bondage in any of the above.
· Receiving enemas, although I have tried a hose pipe outside, which is quite fun
· I like being shaved below the waist.
· I like hot Candle Wax below the waist.
· I like Stinging Nettles being used on me below the waist.
· I use Electro Stimulation with success.
· Using ‘Poppers’ to increase my enjoyment thresholds.
· Fisting: I just love it the feel is out of this world and even better when combined with electro

I am willing to try almost anything including having a catheter fitted.  Any offers??

So you can see what I have been up to in the past, I have written about some the fun times I have had over the years.;-

First Rubber
Having advertised for couples in rubber, I met a couple in Essex, Tony was 57 and Jill was 35, two years older than me, again Tony just wanted to watch. This was my opportunity to start buying rubber, so being guided by Tony and Jill, I started getting more items in rubber, which included pants, long pants with zip openings, polo shirt, stockings and a mask. The smell of rubber was overwhelming, fabulous in fact while in the throws of sex. My relationship ended after about 2 years as Jill left the country for Australia.

It was about this time that I advertised in the ‘Shiny’ magazine, for other rubberists, by the way I still met Ron from time to time. I had a reply from the advert, it was Ken. Now Ken was into all over rubber and bondage, something that I had not tried, so it was a new adventure for me. This was fun, because Ken liked to dress as a Mistress, tie me up and tease. It was about at this time that I had started using enemas and small dildos, remembering that I had got a pair of rubber pants with a dildo attached. Ken had not experimented with enemas, but soon he was tying me up and giving them to me across the kitchen table, and then teasing with small dildos and candles. I soon collected a number of rubber items which included a cat suit, several hoods, elbow length gloves, stockings, pump up bra and a dress.

With the bondage scenes, was the first time I had candle wax dropped onto my cock and balls, as well as onto the entrance of my ass, this actually developed from being held upside down with a lit candle protruding from my ass. It also about this time that I discovered ‘poppers’, which made the waxing even more fun. During bondage Ken would stick dildos and butt plugs up my ass while he gave me a ‘mild’ spanking, which I loved. Ken introduced the idea of stuffing ice cubes into my ass during sessions as well as teasing my cock and balls with stinging nettles.

Ladies undies:
This was something which Ron wanted me to do, so being a friend as I am I agreed to it. I can take it or leave it, but it makes him very happy. I have a small collection of black shiny, lace underwear, bra, self-supporting stockings and a lace up corset.

To make myself look different, I have a blond wig and makeup to go with it. It’s alright as long as I take it off before going home! One day I forgot about the makeup, and I thought it strange the way the petrol station attendant looked at me.

Dildos:
Its only just recently that I have added to my collection of dildos, to the extent, Ron can get his fist in! Needless to say neither of us really know what we are doing, but that’s half the fun of experimentation. I progressed from the attached dildo in the rubber pants to a butt plug, and gradually went up in sizes over a few years, getting more and more pleasure as they got bigger. I have one which is about 10 inches long with three ribs on it (diameter about two and half inched) which when stuck on a post, I’m able to move up and down on it and cum with out touching myself.

I soon managed to get another dildo (see photos), which had a ten and a half inch circumference that was just less than 4 inches across. I had to work at this one, and after about ten sessions of ‘sitting’ on it, it went in! This is all very well, but the shire size makes you want to get it out as soon as possible, so needless to say it took quite a bit more work getting used to it, and that took over a year of self determination and loads of pleasure.

Then having looked at the internet at other dildos and visiting ‘Regulation’ in Islington, I found something a bit larger, and I'm still working on getting it all in, its about 16" in circumferance!!. I then met William via the internet, and he wanted to take me to the extremes with enemas and dildos. I eventually got together with William, and tried his enema with cold water, and only managed to take half a gallon, which was odd because I can take a gallon of warm water, but he tells me that’s normal, well it might be for me..but there room for more..I hope. William then produced some dildos from his bag, and I must say my jaw just dropped at the sight of them! He had also brought some fisting and large dildo videos for me to watch, which I had to admit made me feel very inadequate! Well the video played and nearly every time I commented on the size of a dildo, William produced a dildo of that size from his bag. I got quite excited at the thought of having just any one of them thrust up my arse.

I got the feeling that William wanted to see if they would fit, so I volunteered very quickly before he changed his mind. For starters, he took out my double ended 18” dildo and inserted it slowly all the way up my arse…what a great feeling it is when a third party administers a dildo! The dildo went all the way..yes all the way, with William hanging onto the end. I could feel it inside, a little uncomfortable, so William withdraw it by a couple of inches and the feeling was truly wonderful. Then he twisted the whole thing inside me, which sent shivers of pleasure through me, and believe me I never thought I could get too much, but after about 8 minutes of sheer unadulterated pleasure I had to have it removed..it was driving me crazy with pleasure!

William then got out a inflatable dildo, and demonstrated how much it would expand by..few, it was large. He deflated it and began inserting the black invader, in it went with out any trouble, and then with a big grin on his face he pushed it all the way in and started pumping………….It expanded slowly, filling my over excited arse hole. Pleasure turned to ‘slow down a bit’ to this is just toooooo much, and then William started moving the giant invader backwards and forwards. I hate to think how big the dildo was, but I knew it was BIG. After a time, William removed it and I felt very very empty and I couldn’t wait for my next experience.

I needed a rest, so we continued looking at the videos; and after about 15 minutes, and I must be honest I was hungry for more dildos up my arse, there was a scene of a large dildo, about 18-20 inches long with a stop at 20 inches, after which there was another 8 inches of a 2 inch moulded dildo with lots of bumps on. Needless to say this sent my mind into overdrive, but the other 20 inch end comprised of what I can only describe as three different sized butt plugs joined together, each one getting bigger, and I mean bigger! William said that there was no way I could take it as he had tried and failed…so there was the gauntlet….I accepted the challenge, and assumed the position on the floor, my cock leaking with anticipation. The dildo was well lubed, and slowly inserted. (You must see the photos of this, it’s truly amazing). The first one was a breeze, smoothly sliding in, preparing the way for the next part of the anal intruder. William asked if I was ready, and I said go for it. Again the pressure was put on, but the dildo slipped in with just a bit, a lot more girth pushing inside, then it went in…Oh what a super feeling. Now it was time for the part I had my misgivings for, it was bigger than any dildos I had had before. The dildo was lubed up a bit more, thank goodness, and William pushed hard on the end, it was opening me slowly….and more… and more....and then William told me that it was a the point he was unable to get passed. That made me more determined to take the lot, and I then pushed back onto the ‘dildo’, and then….pop it went in…my arse hole closed around it, and I knew I had succeeded!

Then just to make me feel good, William said, “The last person who had this in had to have it surgically removed!!!”. I just smiled with pleasure and got used to having the largest thing ever inside my arse hole. My only regret was that I was not upside down, in which case William could have sat on the handle and we would have had a dual pleasure, but that’s for next time, I hope. Having got over this feat, it was time to remove it, and I can assure you it was more difficult than you can imagine, well you must have seen my photo, so you will know what I mean! William pulled, and my lips started parting revealing the huge dildo end, it took its time and then with a sudden rush, the end of the dildo rocketed out, still leaving two thirds inside, I think the speed of it coming out even surprised William! The rest withdraw with no problem at all, leaving me and William totally amazed. Now we're talking some serious anal toys! The Falcon Expander (Natural ER7111NA4) is for true anal masters! It's a tower of butt plugs on a handle! This toy is 21 1/2" long (14 insertable, if you dare). The three plugs are 2", 2 1/2", and 3" thick at the widest points. Open wide and say "Ahhhh!" Price: $95.00

Urethral play
Out of the blue came an email form a very nice chap in SW London, I will refer to him as Guy, it came via an advert in the Yahoo communities ‘mens urethral playpen’, now closed.
I had never had a go at urethral play; in fact it was one of those things I came across in my search for something different. Having got quite worked up reading about the subject I needed some advice. Guy very kindly told me what to do, as I was a virgin in this field. Preparation was the most important thing, making sure that every thing was sterile.
The first sensation was loading myself with KY jelly…oh….the cool sensation travelling down inside my cock was electric, after which it oozed out the top of my cock waiting for insertion. The first object was a small water colouring paintbrush, which slipped in a treat, but with care I must add. I then got a bit more ambitious, and found a 6” cocktail stick (always wondered why they were called that!!), the stick was about 3mm wide, with a ball on the end of about 5mm. I started to insert it slowly, but came up against an obstruction with 15mm, a little un nerving, I continued to add a little more pressure, not too much and the cocktail stick slipped passed the obstruction. To my surprise, the ‘pleasure stick’ slipped all the way down inside my cock to its full length! The sensation took a while for me to appreciate what I was doing, but moving it up and down was like masturbating from the inside! Now I had to remove it, up it came, but it hit that obstruction again. With gentle pressure I pulled and it popped out like a cork ‘pop’. Needless to say I was very pleased with myself and immediately informed my mentor Guy. Guy was very encouraging, and offered more advice.
Getting very confident, I moved on to a Chop Stick, the only thing I could think of for the job, I rounded off the end, sterilised it ready for action. Down it went without any trouble to about 14cm, where I stopped at an obstruction, well I thought it was. I reported my progress to Guy about this, and a few other reports on my solo progress. I at last got it down just over 22cm, and if you look at my photos you will see I went further! Again the sensation on the inside has to be experienced, and I now try to introduce this into all my solo sessions. All that and I think I must get it stuck in!!
Next, I need to enlarge the ‘hole’ to get a larger object in; a pen will be next, but I’m still a little too small. But the other day I persevered and the pen went in..but I did hurt a bit, so I’m leaving that size alone for a while, to let it repair its self.
The last sensation after all that is when you go for a pee, and you feel all the KY being pushed out.

Fisting:
Yes it was Guy who gave me my first real fisting, although, my pal Ron had only just managed to get inside me a few weeks before.

I met Guy in his local pub, had a chat, and returned to his place, we discussed our proposed program for the evening, after which I couldn’t wait. I had given myself an enema before I had left home, but agreed to another, because I just love them….can’t wait for my next one! After another good clean out, we returned to the bedroom, which Guy had prepared for the evenings entertainment.
As Guy had given me all the But he surprised me even more when he was able to put quite a large size pen inside his cock. Wow!
Guy had described how he loved to see his fist pulling and pushing through the entrance of an arse, and that was exactly what he wanted to do to me. I just couldn’t wait, and got my self into position on the bed, with my arse pointing invitingly upwards towards Guy. Guy had made some ‘lube’ up, and started to put round the entrance of my anticipating arse hole. The first touch was like magic, sending sensations through my body, more lube went onto and INTO my arse, I couldn’t wait. Then I felt one, two, three, four fingers entering my aching wanton arse…oooooh. Soon Guy’s fist was inside, and he did take a lot of care doing so I might add, but it was worth every second, for what followed. Guy slowly moved in and out getting me used to the size of his fist (it was great!). He was able to see the lips of my arse moving in and out with the movement of his hand. Once I was used to it, he removed his fist a little further out making my arse lips really pull! Just what he wanted to see! Well his fist then went back and forth to get the maximum visual effect of my lips kissing his fist. If I remember correctly, (because I was ‘in heaven’), he removed his fist and re entered again…and again….Oh what a night!! If only we had had a camera…but that will be next time.

Threesomes:
At the age of 18, I was having a problem finding a girl friend and wanted to experiment with sex, so I put various adverts into magazines such as ‘Experience’ and ‘Forum’ to meet couples or females.
I was lucky first time with a couple, who I will call Pat and Ron. Ron was about 4 years older than me and wanted to watch his wife have sex with another male. Pat was a very good teacher, and over a time she taught me how to really turn a woman on, using my mouth and tongue. Needless to say Ron joined in from time to time.
This was the first time I tried male sexy underwear which include leather ‘g’ strings , pouches and pants. At the suggestion of Pat’s I bought some rubber pants, and found that they turned her on (as well as me). I found the catalogues had loads of different types of pants, which included pants with sheaths and dildos attached, needless to say I had a couple of each. I had mixed reactions over the latter items, so they were not used too much, until I advertised for couples into rubber, (more later).

This relationship with Pat and Ron continued for 10 years, although in between time I got married. Towards the end of the 10 years, I tended to sleep over at their house on the floor of the living room. In the middle of one night, I became aware of someone getting into bed with me, and starting to arouse me, it was Ron! Well I was so aroused that I thought it was Pat touching my ass, I soon discovered that Ron was slowly pushing his cock into my ass..and I haven’t looked back. Ron and I meet at least once every 4-6 weeks, but more of that later. Unfortunately Pat and Ron divorced, so that was the end of a super 3some.

My next threesome:-
Quite out of the blue I received an e-mail, from Pete and Kate, ( I have changed their names..) It appeared that they had come across my website, and on the strength of its contents thought they would get in touch. Well, I thought, Pete seems keen, so I returned an e-mail, explaining how my wife had no idea of my kinky side! Pete wanted to know how on earth I managed to keep everything secret from her. Pete told me that I might be great for a threesome, because he guessed that I was obviously bi which is great for him and Kate as they like to play with bi guys and sometimes have some really wicked threesomes with lots of anal play. Needless to say I was very surprised, and had to pinch myself to make sure I was not dreaming. Pete told me that the only day they usually played was on a Sunday due to work and children being around. He then asked me if I fancied coming over to Essex, because they thought that we could all have a great time together.
He asked me if I had ever been fisted by a woman before or even fucked with a strap on, and to really get me going he added “ well I can tell you it's lovely.” Again…was I dreaming all this? No because he went on to say, “We play nearly every Sunday, usually on our own so a bit of company would be nice especially somebody as perverted as yourself.” Well that was a real compliment. You can imagine how wet I was getting inside my briefs, while reading these e-mails…was it true? Had I been invited round for a long over due threesome? …….YES!
You would think it was an ordinary day that Sunday, I felt like an 18-year-old virgin, the week had been spent dreaming about what was about to happen! I had packed my briefcase with a few dildos, along with some other toys and some rubber wear as Pete had asked me to bring some. I’ll tell you what I could only just get the case shut!
I walked up to the front door, wondering if it was a ‘wind up’, and what Pete and Kate looked like, Pete opened the door and welcomed me into the living room, where I meet Kate. My first impression and it still is..Wow what a couple, why had it been so long since I’d had a threesome….some 20 years would you believe.
They were watching a naughty DVD recording while they had both been waiting for me. We had a chat and a cup of coffee, exchanged some ideas and discussed my kinky website. I got the feeling that Kate did not believe me 100% about the things I had been up to….needless to say after our session, she is a believer (It was fun demonstrating!)
I’m not going to give a ‘blow by blow’ account of the session, because it was five hours long with as many kinky things happening all the time, as I said, what a couple..Wow. I hope that Pete will read this and may be add his thoughts to make my vivid memory of sex, sex ,sex!
While getting to know one and other, I opened my case and took out my toys etc and put them on display. Kate was wearing very little and was a real turn on, I could see that her nipples were pierced, with small rings through them. Kate was the first person I had ever met with pierced nipples…….and there was more……
Having a reasonable idea of how the session was going to go, I disappeared and gave my self an enema, with my spray attachment over the loo, I was even left a kinky magazine to look at while I did so. I was now ready; I had taken my Viagra tablet, and was ready for almost anything. Returning to the living room, I found Pete and Kate hard at it enjoying themselves. I was invited to sit between them, and soon found my hand rubbing Pete’s cock and the other finding it’s way to Kate’s pussy. I had quite a surprise! Kate had had three piecings, each with a small ring and ball on each. It didn’t take long for me to slide onto the floor and explore with my tongue. While doing this I caught hold of her nipples. I moved my tongue up and down her pussy, taking the rings and pulling them into my mouth, and while I did this, I heard the sounds of a satisfied lady. I kept this up, while I felt Pete’s cock enter my rear, and start pumping slowly, which in turn made my tongue go into overdrive. Kate felt the need of a cock, and Pete quickly took over and plunged his cock straight into Kate’s warm pussy. Watching this, as you know is a real turn on for an audience, me and only me. I was unable to resist picking up a skittle, a plastic one, coating it with lub, and pushing it slowly into Pete’s arse. I can only say that Pete’s reaction was one of pleasure!
Earlier, while showing off our toys, Kate had shown me a couple of dildos, which made me, feel randy, just by looking at them. One was shaped like three balls moulded together on top of each other, large, medium and small. Pete said he was unable to get the last one in, so I said I’d have a go. Boy, it slipped into my arse, like a well lubricated finger, the small one…medium one and yes the large too, such a filling sensation, it was great! I then had to do it all again (Oh dear) while Kate and Pete took pictures and video, well I did not mind, I would have done it again and again! Kate then produced a rubber moulded fist and arm, and said “how about this?” Not wishing to upset her I said yes. She asked if I would like to wear a mask, and I agreed because you can centre on the sensations given around the arse. So, mask on, and on my knees on top of the sofa. I can only tell what happened next, because I saw the video, there I was, being well lubricated, anticipating the rubber fist dildo, but no, Pete gave me a good amount of goo and started to push his hand inside me, and all this time I thought it was the rubber dildo! He touched parts that had never seen a fist before, it went in smoothly, as I felt wonderful sensations go through my body, my cock began to leak slowly, allowing a string of cum dribble to fall to the floor. Further in it went, with no problems, not even a sniff of poppers, then the fist seemed to stop, and I felt that was as far as it would go. While watching the replay I was amazed to see that Pete had almost got all his forearm inside me, in fact I think he had about only 2 inches left before his elbow, …corr….you just have to believe me, it was fantastic, and just as good as his fist travelled back out. Oh for the next time, I can’t wait. To see my arse clamp around his arm, and the skin go in and out as he moved, is enough to make me want even more….any offers?
Having now seen what happened, Kate said she wanted to video the rubber fist entering my hole, needless to say I obliged. I know that both Pete and Kate were amazed at what I took, by the comments they were making, the video again on play back showed my rim clamping to the rubber intruder, and I must say it brought out the exhibitionist out in me, so I suggested I continue the show by inserting my chopstick down my cock. The facial expressions of both Pete and Kate should have been caught on tape, they were great! Then Pete had very kindly gone out and got some stinging nettles, so I inserted a nettle leaf inside my cock, and explained that if it was squeezed it would make the nettles come more in contact with the inside, and yes, Kate took the opportunity to squeeze, oh how I like that! Next I took a long stalk, about 4 inches long and inserted it, and again Kate took over, while I plastered the nettles around my exposed cock while Pete recorded it all.
During our session, Pete tried many of his larger toys on me, I just loved it, when I saw their expressions as I took the lot. Then Kate said she wanted to see my face as a large mushroom-ended dildo came out, because it made Pete ‘jump’. Unfortunately, I just smiled as it plopped out with ease, and I couldn’t wait for it to go back!
The most difficult thing of the day was co-ordinating both my hands, one playing with Kate and the other with Pete, well I enjoyed myself, kiss, suck and lick……. By now Kate was ready to be fucked, and Pete climbed on top, and took both of them to some dizzy heights while I watched. By the time they had finished, Pete was ready for bed, quite exhausted, and I took the opportunity to slip my finger inside Kate. Oh what I wouldn’t have given, to be told to lick all Petes cum out, but not wishing to upset Kate I smiled and asked if she had had enough, and she had. Fortunately I came while I sat on the three ball dildo, up and down, up and down and I felt my cum rushing up and out of my cock. While the dildo rubbed inside my arse.
Well I’m sure I have missed something out, but I do know that there were three very satisfied bunnies after the five hour session…roll on to the next meeting, when Kate has promised to use a strap-on-dildo on me…I can’t wait. Not only that, Kate has promised me a visit to her attic with Pete, and she says I will be blindfolded…I’m just getting wet at the thought of it.

Stinging Nettles
As I said under 'Rubber', Ken introduced the idea of stuffing ice cubes into my ass during sessions as well as teasing my cock and balls with stinging nettles.
Meanwhile, Graham contacted me with some super photos of getting nettle leaves inside his cock, YES I tried it!!!!wowwwwwww

Electrostim:
Talking of cumming with out touching myself, electrostim is fantastic, I first tried ‘Tens’ unit which I found very good for CBT, but nothing else. I then stumbled across a MSN community site that covered electrostim. I purchased a programme ‘Phaser’ and afterwards downloaded a free sound player along with ready made sound effects. I started using this and have tried various combinations of sound, eventually I found a couple of combinations that worked. Talk about ‘no hands’..wow I would recommend this to anyone.

All you have to do, is take the line out of the computer and place the other end into your Hi-Fi input. Now connect some bell wire to the speaker terminals (lets do it in mono first).
I have a ET312 now, and that gives a lot of fun.

PLEASE NOTE: LAS the moderator at Erotic Electro Stim Magazine commented on my electrostim method. It's dangerous, and there are much better ways and I may be doing a disservice by promoting a direct hookup to the speaker terminals of a line powered amp.

Now you need some connections to your cock. You can find them on the web, but without buying anything, you can try the following. Get some material, say cotton and make it into a strip about an inch wide and say 8 inches long, soak it in salt water, squeeze out the access water and wrap it around the base of you cock and balls, now do a similar piece of material and wrap it around the head of your cock. Now connect the other end of the bell wires, one to each piece of material, now you are ready to try the sounds…but remember to put ALL volumes DOWN..or you may get woken up! Bring up the volume slowly until you can fell the current..and you are away. Have fun.

Enemas:
I have a bag, which I use from time to time, into which I have used various solutions, from soap, bicarbonate of soda, salt, wine, beer but mainly pure water. I used to use a balloon nozzle, until it went bang! I have never really measured how much liquid I have used, but I would think I have taken half a gallon, that’s about two bags full. I’ve also tried an ‘air’ enema, but I remain unconvinced of its pleasure.

The most enjoyable enema for me is to have a continuous supply of water running, which leaves you to enjoy a continuous sensation without filling a bag. I have devise a way of keeping the enema tube inside my ass without it coming out. This enables you to connect up to the shower hose in the bathroom , sit on the loo and take as much or little water as you want at a time.

It would be so nice to have an expert do all the other things connected to enemas while being filled.

Shaving:
This is something, which I have mainly done on my own, all because I had the 'snip'. I liked the feel so much I have kept it up.

Only once did I get what I call an expert to give me one. This was the first time that I had my cock and balls shaved as well as my ass. It’s a great experience having this done, and to be very honest, I would much rather have someone do this to me than doing it myself, although I would take great delight in doing it for them.

I try to keep myself shaved in this area as much as possible, but if there is someone out there who would like to do it, I’ll let it grow.

Well that's me, the kinky me, fancy a meeting, then send me an email for a date, male, females or couples very welcome.