Consider two women, Andrea and Betty.  Andrea is a pretty blonde, young, tall, slender, with ample breasts.  Betty is a nice-looking brunette, middle aged, of average height, a few pounds overweight, with average breasts.  Who is more attractive?

But wait, there is more to the story.  Andrea only wants sex once a week in the missionary position, in the evening, in a bed, under the covers, with the lights off.  Andrea doesn’t particularly enjoy fellatio, and she rarely sucks your cock.  Betty likes sex several times a week, day or night, in any of several positions and comfortable locations.  Last week Betty picked you up at the airport and fondled your cock during the car ride back from the airport.  Today you and buddy are watching the game, and she plans to suck off both you and him during halftime.  Now who is more attractive?

My point is that your behavior strongly affects people's perception of your attractiveness.

Men, if you are seeking satisfaction in a long-term partner, look beyond a woman’s superficial appearance and also consider her behavior.  While you’re drooling over the knockout Andrea, you might be overlooking the diamond-in-the-rough Betty standing right next to her.

Ladies, if are you concerned about your appearance, you can use behavior to tip the scales in your favor.  Assuming that you enjoy sex, letting a guy know this will make you much more attractive to him.  I’m not suggesting that you hang a pair of Cathy’s Cuffs from your car’s rearview mirror.  A gentle hint or two will do the trick.  Casually mention that nude beach that you visited a couple of years ago.  Or, complain about the low quality of the adult movies available in hotel rooms.  Or, my standby for the especially-dense male, greet him with a blithe “How’s it hanging?”.  He won’t react right away, but give him a little time to process it, and he’ll be back.

Ms. PartyPilgrims