Seems best to keep "about me" in the profile relatively brief, but if you care enough to read my blog, you might be interested in more. So here it is.

I'm 30 years old. A great age to be - I still have the drive of a young guy, but with some experience and without the immaturity or selfishness. I was there at one point. I grew up.

I live somewhere in the southern United States. The environment in which I grew up wasn't particularly progressive, especially concerning sexual matters. It's great to have a place where you can explore yourself and what you like.

I'm a freelance writer and photographer. My photos are of me and by me. They vary in quality - doing some of that solo isn't easy. Taking the photos was a lot of fun, and I do get a thrill from the idea that somebody out there might be getting off to them. I might be interested in doing more of this sort of photography in the future with willing collaborators. (Nothing else has to happen.)

Just like anyone else here, I love sex. But I'm actually quite reserved about it in real life. What I do is none of anyone else's business unless I make it so. I'm not big on labeling myself or accepting an "identity" other than simply what I am. For the purposes of filling out the sexual orientation question on the profile here - I enjoy women and men, so I am bisexual and I'm comfortable with that for the purposes of discussion. But it's not a "lifestyle" or a political agenda for me. At the same time, I realize bisexual people - especially men - seem to be grossly misunderstood. Maybe I'm doing a small part in laying this out for anyone who wants to read.

It's gotten to where I don't really care to have casual sex, i.e. doing it just for the sake of getting off. If all I'm caring to do is cum then I can do that on my own with no hassle, whenever I want. This doesn't mean I have to be committed for life with a sexual partner, but I need to care about that person in some way. My pleasure comes from my giving her - or him - pleasure.

Outside of sex I like what might be called "normal" guy stuff. Beer, football, that sort of thing.

 Security and belief in yourself is the biggest turn-on ever. This goes for both ladies and guys. Looking good is good and all, but it doesn't reflect anything meaningful like your sense of self. You can be the most beautiful woman (or man) and be terribly insecure about yourself, your looks, your sexuality etc. Figure out what you are - or decide you don't need to label anything at all - and enjoy life.

I love ladies of any background and any healthy size or shape. Everything about them. The way their bodies feel, the way they smell, the sound of a female voice. I have historically seemed to attract women who are of a submissive tendency, but I really prefer when the sex we have is on a more equitable level. Once again, to me it's about pleasing her. From that comes my pleasure. This is not to say I don't enjoy receiving certain pleasures from her that do more for me than for her, but she shall be compensated for her efforts.

 It's taken since my early adult years to acknowledge and make peace with the fact that I also find certain guys attractive. Not just their penis - though that's nice too - but after having my first proper M/M experience recently with a close friend I found I can be just as comfortable on an intimate basis with another man. It helped, of course, that it was with someone I know, trust, care about and - yes, love, in my own way. Now, the true nature of my attraction to guys is difficult to explain. I don't really go checking them out in public, but that's not to say one here or there doesn't catch my eye at the right time. Really with guys even moreso I think than with women - attitude and a sense of self-security is the most important thing. If you're a douche, move on. If you're level-headed and we share some interests, then you're who I'd like to hear from.

 My physical turn-ons are too numerous to name. Turn-offs are few but include scat and I'm not much for pain either, or things that look particularly painful. This is not to be confused with things that can hurt if done improperly but not so much if done properly.

 Also, I like comments. Say what's on your mind. Anything goes.

I like to be respectful when leaving comments for others, especially the ladies. Unless they want me to be dirty, and I can do that too. Just remember, there's a real person behind each profile you see on here. Well, except for the spam bots, of course :o

Well, that's about all that's on my mind right now. I might share some other stuff, maybe some stories and such. I've never entered the world of erotica as a writer. Maybe if I can keep both hands on the keyboard for long enough I'll come up with a good read.

-biyoucity