I find the sex noise from teasing and baby talk, the moans and groans,screams of ecstasy,gasps, gulps, a real turn on.

But recently i heard a group of mixed people say the opposite, the guys saying "don't the women talk a lot of junk just before orgasm,"omg yes yes, iam cumming iam cumming," and so on.

Then the women were commenting on the men grunting and groaning, the "how was it for you syndrome" then rolling off and having a smoke.

I love the noise and build up and the final explosive orgasm, multi orgasms if things go well, followed by a embrace and still silence then for the whole thing to build up again.

I would bet that the number of times both parties want sex, the sort of gaging for it feeling is rare, (in a ongoing partnership) some first time sessions have been fantastic, but most a let down or anticlimax.

Once i thought i was a brilliant lover then i discovered the woman concern had a asthma problem.