Well.... I haven't had much sex with my hubby for a while. Living in a “sexless” marriages can be quite upsetting. I think I had sex with him for about 10 times.... a year. He keeps saying "I’m tired", "How about later", "What’s the big deal? Get a life", "That’s all you ever want". I suspect that he's having an affairs with other people as he's constantly away for business trips.

It makes me feel like maybe it’s me that he’s not attracted to anymore (ok, I’ve gained weight), like he is disappointed in his choice of wife, to being sexually unattractive, to feeling like he secretly hates me, to feeling like I am a freak of nature.  But anyway, I’ve tried different things, even talking to him, telling him how I feel, how it hurts my feelings, makes me feel fat, ugly, unloved, etc....  I told him he should be lucky to be married to someone with such a high sex drive! And when I reach 40 forget it! That’s when women become cougars and start dating younger guys! haha....  I want more sex! I know I’m not alone here!