Some of you may be thinking what gives a middle aged pervert like me license to give advice to white guys before they marry a white woman. Its because im such a pervert that i understand the things I am going to tell you. We live in a world today that is drastically different from what our fathers and grandfathers knew. Interracial sex was taboo. it was only whispered about and only the lowest of women engaged in it. those that did were ostracized from most of white society. but not today. Integration and Civil rights and a better standard of living for blacks has brought into mainstream america, and that means availability to our white women. Its not only common to see a black man and a white woman, but it is now considered chic and fashionable for a white girl to have a black lover

We have to stop agonizing over the reality of the new world and learn to accept the fact that we are in competition for our white womens affections and desires with our black brethen. dont belittle or degregate white women for having a fantasy or at least a curiosity of what sex would be like with a black man. its only natural. but unlike us perverts who relish the thought of our wives or girlfriends servicing big dicked black men, the overwelming majority of white men want to marry a woman who will be faithful to them and the thought of their wife fucking some strange black man after they are married is one which they abhor and would find dificult to accept. So heres what you have to do if you want to minimize the risk. you can never fully guarantee that someday she might fall victim to the charms or sexuality of a black man, especially if you  are going through some difficult times with your wife. there are some sketchy statistics that show that a white wife who is separated from her husband has a 30% chance of having a sexual affair witha black partner.   that same wife, if she divorces ahs a similar 30% chance of living with a black man after the divorce. so that natural attraction is always there.

Your first step is to find out if your partner has already had a sexual experience with a black male. if she is younger, between 18 and 25, the likelihood is that she has had some kind of experience with interracial sex. it may have been as little as dating with kissing and heavy petting, or oral sex and a suprising number of those who have been fucked by a black cock. I will get back to that group a little later. right now im focusing on the woman who has never had  such a relationship, but who has certainly thought about it or even fantasized about it. A suprising number of women who are marrying later in life or who may venture into their 2nd marriage fall into this group. they tend to be older. in their 30s ,40s or even later. The average man doesnt want to find himself in a situation where this type of woman decides to fulfill that fantasy after he marries her. So im recommending what will seem to some to be somewhat drastic action. The only chance you have is to get the fantasy out of the way and deal with the reality of her interest in fucking black men. Its always a risky thing to suggest to a partner that you think they should fuck someone else. the reasons for this are legion and i need not go over them. but if you exlplain  that you think its important that she experience these things bdefore you marry her and that you are ok with them, she just might be honest enough with you to admit her curiosity about sex with a dark black man. If you insist strongly enough and she is convinced that her fucking  him wont affect your relationship, the rest is easy.

First, you have to set it up, dont let her  do it.If she had someone in mind she would be reluctant to admit it. think of it as an experiment, one you will both talk about when its over. the second step is to find a location where you can observe her during the time she is with him, without her knowing it. if she knows you are watching, you wont get a true reaction from her. If you rent a motel room for the weekend and on saturday hire an investigator to locate a camera and recording device that is not visible, you will see first hand whether or not she has the potential to be a black cock slut, which is what you are trying to avoid ( perverts like me can use the same technique to make sure she is a black cock slut which fits more in to our life style). when the time finally comes be sure you dont let her back out. be supportive and convince her this will be a good thing for your future.

When the time comes for you to witness everything they do and everything they say, you will know then and there if there is a strong likelihood that she will someday repeat the experience. when its over and he leaves, its time to hear her out. your first impulse should be one of happiness when you meet her, even if its obvious she will want black cock again. she doesnt know that you heard and saw everything. once settled down, tell her shes beautiful and slowly begin the questions.  .. are you sorry you did it....was it what you thought it would be......was it something you enjoyed.....  if i asked you to do it again,would you do it........tell me what it was like to fuck a black man.....what was different from when we fuck..... was his cock much larger than mine....did the size of his cock make any difference in the sensation......did you have an orgasm from him....only one, or more...... did you suck his cock.... did he cum inside you or in your mouth........on a scale of 1 to 10 how would you rate the overall experience..... do you think that fucking another balck cock is something you might want to try again. as you can see the questions are almost endless. each answer can be tested against the tape and audio recording. oh , and by the way, i forget to mention that you can script what you want the black guy to do and say to her and to get key answers to his questions, like was i better that your white boyfriend, does his cock feel as good inside you as mine...... does he make you feel as good as i did.  you get the idea. your questions will test her answers against what she tells him in the heat of the moment.

I wont tell you what you should do when you finally finish your question and answer session. by then you will have made up your mind if you think she is honest about the experience and whether or not you think you can trust her after you marry her. If you are lucky enough to find that one special gal who could be  faithful to you, then having her fuck a black cock before you are married is a small price to pay

As for dealing with the gal who has had a sexual relationship with a black man, there is no sense in having her fucked. it becomes a true question and answer session... how many black men have you known...what kind of sex have you had with them....ever fuck more than one at a time...are you still friends with any black guys you, have fucked... when was the last time you either fucked or sucked a black cock...do you prefer sex with a black man....is size an important issue with you......do you think that sometime in the future you would probably have sex again with a black man..I doubt if you she  will be honest in the answers to all your questions, but you can get enough out of her answers to at least decide if she has the capacity and the will to be faithful and to resist the advances of black suitors in the future

So thats my primer. its not perfect, but if you can up with a better method, let me know