BlackedFaggot's blog Profile | Galleries | Favorites | Fanbase | Clubs | Comments | Blog imagefap "fan"ning so i got a nasty little private message on here the other day from someone who became a fan of my profile...it was basically how rude it was that i didn't fan them back...i tried to defend myself by saying that (unfortunately for them, i guess) there was nothing about their profile that made me want to fan them...they had some similar interests, yes, but they didn't have any galleries and i didn't care for the favourites that they had...maybe it's me being sefl-centered or something, but just because someone likes your stuff doesn't mean that you'll like theirs...am i in the wrong for believing that just because someone is your fan doesn't mean you have to be theirs? or should I just do the polite thing and reciprocate?     Posted on : Jul 27, 2011     Add Comment wrecktum Comments: 627 Commented on Aug 13, 2011 I personally feel that returning a 'fan-add' has nothing to do with being polite, I will fan profiles that turn me on, or interest me and that I wish to keep track of. I certainly don't expect (much less demand) that the person returns my fan addition...you have done nothing to apologise for IMO.   iwantablackrul Comments: 195 Commented on Aug 5, 2011 the problem is that you cant stop people from faning you but you dont have to fan them back.i have fans that i dont fan back and why should i.their profiles,galleries and favourites have no interest to me.   dani_cd Comments: 3,667 Commented on Jul 29, 2011 I should have also added, I do not expect everyone who I "fan" to "fan me" either...   dani_cd Comments: 3,667 Commented on Jul 29, 2011 I am with you! 100%. I do not "fan" everyone who "fans" me. I do check their profile, see what they have, and especially how long they have been members, last time on and such. I go from there and decide. I wouldn't worry about it at all and just make your choice as you see fit.   subsissygirl2 Comments: 43 Commented on Jul 28, 2011 I totally agree with this. If anything it's more self centered to become someones fan just so they will become your fan in exchange, become a fan because you like the page, not out of some stupid reciprocation.   xXxsarahbabyyx Comments: 12 Commented on Jul 28, 2011 I think i've fanned about 6 or 7 people since I joined.   simonr82 Comments: 1,674 Commented on Jul 27, 2011 Well it is the fan system, if you're not a fan of their profile you shouldn't have to but i think its become somewhat of a courtesy to fan someone who has added you. This is where xhamster's system shines.