Had an interesting conversation with one of her friends over beers one night.  She had known her for quite sometime, a couple of years before we had started dating, and she made a comment about the idea that she thought that I was abusing her.  She told me that making her go out near nude, breasts in bondage, leash and collar was painful, exploitative and degrading. 

I told her that this was basically the idea, but was not sure how she could call that abuse.  I pointed out that she wanted to be a slave, and owned, and that would mean that she was not exactly going to be treated as an equal. She seemed unhappy about the idea of her being subject to all that "abuse".  When I asked my slave if she liked being owned, the answer a strong yes, do you think it what is required of you is painful and degrading?  Yes, but it is part of being a slave.  I carried on, as I could tell it made her uncomfortable.I think the idea, is that I am supposed to please myself, and the very fact that she is made to do things is the turn on.  If she takes being a slave seriously, which she does, she will be focused on being obedient, and that is somehow fulfilling. Besides, this way she knows she is always making people happy.  

It got kind of interesting, because it was clear that she needed to adjust her thinking, and I wanted to get her reactions.  We walked through a whole bunch of the things that had happened.  I could see that she was shocked, and that it was rapidly changing the way she saw my slave.  At the end after we went through the one incident where the guys had actually slapped her tits,and where she got them grabbed on a public street in the red light district, and realized that she had been neither mad or upset, although perhaps a "little" turned on.  The challenge was to get her head around the idea that she would do what she was told and enjoy it.  That the fact that she could take it, and had "no choice" was a huge turn on.  When slave reiterated that she liked being a slave, and that this was all part of it, she was shaking her head.  When slave made a further comment about being owned meant that nothing was on her or up to her.  I could see the light really go on, the idea that she could see herself as owned had not occurred to her.  Somehow, that made it ok. 

Her reaction however, was almost like a light switch.  If she was going to act like property, she should be treated as such. Basically a fuck her then, I don't  give a shit what you do to her.  If she is crazy enough to want to be owned, I guess, you can't really call it abuse.  Now she was fine with just about anything, including the idea of discipline to make her do more.  She seemed to see it as more of a yes no thing, you were property, then you dealt with what your owner felt like, or you were not property then fine.  She was suddenly actually enthusiastic about seeing her in a leash and collar, in breast bondage even wanted to try the nipple clamps on her.  She also acknowledged that it is hard to see it as abusive, when someone pushed a girl wearing a leash and collar that they know is a slave.  Of course slave, really does see that normal rules do not apply to her.  Someone slapping her ass, grabbing her breasts, pinching her nipple is not abuse, assault or whatever, it is just the natural consequence of being  slave.  Hard to argue when you are on a leash and in breast bondage.