I've been a lurker on the net since 1993, long before sites like this were even dreamed of, and seeing a single 50k pic could take 20 or 30 minutes to load! Yikes! (You can read about the early years pt. 1 at http://jesslukin.thumblogger.com/ ) Finally, after close to 20 years of looking and lurking (and fapping and wanking!), and becoming increasingly bored with my life as I watced the years fly by, I decided what the heck, and joined a couple of sites just to see what its like. (I don't facebook or do other social media despite friend's requests, and that it would be smart to do business wise.) And so far, its been a lot of fun, although I don't get to chat a lot - I'm really a busy guy - but I do enjoy exchanging hot messages, stories, and more via email or pm within a site whenever possible. Some of the things that hvae been shared with me are absolutly mind-blowing, and make me realize that I have just not lived! LOL

But! There is also a lot of frustration involved. Often, I will be having what appears to be a great exchange with a woman, then ****crickets**** They just disappear, no 'not interested, you bore me, you pissed me off', or anything. It just leaves one wondering 'what the hell just happened?'. I kind of understand, as  a woman on a sex site you must be just inundated with messages from horny guys trying to chat you up, undoubtedly some with bigger cocks, prettier faces, cut bodies etc. than me. But I am witty, intelligent (maybe too cerebral?), open-minded, have varied interests, have a nice cock that I'm happy to share, and can play naughty, nice or filthy fucking nasty;-)

So am I missing something here? I would love to get the ladies take on this, or anybody for that matter. Now I know what the chicks feel like when they complain 'He never calls me back!'. LOL C'est la vie:)

Play Dirty, Play Often - jess