I've had a few conversations as of late with a few M/s D/s couples and I really think a lot of people are in this for the wrong reasons,  there are far to many people playing games.  I'm not hard core,  but don't judge others who live the lifestyle 24/7,  but it's just not for me,  but yet here is the contradiction to that....I am a sub by nature, it IS who I am,  it's not just tendencies, or bedroom kinks, it's complex,  it's mental,  the physical is secondary.  Which brings me to this point there is the saying sticks and stones may hurt me, but whips and chains excite me.  While there is definitely physical excitement in a lot of the 'kinks' (for lack of a better word,  is it really a kink if it comes naturally to someone? just because it doesn't fit the "normal" world....maybe some vanilla folks need to let go of their inhibitions for once!)  the mental side is so damn exciting to me!  If you can connect with a person on a mental level deeply enough,  ok if a Dominant can get into a subs mind connect deep enough you can do things to her, bring her places that she'd never imagine going. 

I'm curious what other subs think/feel on the subject of their own submission. Open for discussion....anyone?

*** please remember these thoughts are my own everyone has a right to their own thoughts and opinions another words if you're gonna email me don't be rude ***