Hello Everyone

For whoever is reading this blog, this is my first entry. About a year ago, my gf and I discovered a shared love: asphyx. We had been together about 6 months or so and had regular sex. As she gets close to orgasm, he has a tendency to "lose control" in a sense. She no longer is able to keep a steady rhythm, and goes into ineffective quivering motions, much like a fibrillation of the heart. She also kinda starts flexing her arms straight out to grab onto something like she needs to steady herself. Depending on the intensity, she can be quite vocal as well :-)

Anyway, when she was on top, as she orgasmed (what an awkward word), she would sometimes support herself with her hands on my chest. Well, on a couple of occasions, her little arm spasms moved her hands from my chest to my neck, and her open thumbs hooked around. As she was supporting her weight, she was putting some pressure down. I didn't say anything about it, because I assumed it was just something that she didn't even know she was doing. The third time it happened, I told her I noticed her hands around my throat several times. After a moments flash of embarrassment across her face, she looked back up and said,

"Yeah, I was doing it on purpose."

 I smiled and said, "You like that, too?"

and she said "well, yeah. I thought you did, too. I kept doing it, but you just didn't say anything"

That's when I told her I thought she was just doing it accidentally in the throes of orgasm. She laughed and told me about how she still was a little embarrassed about it, so she didn't do it very hard, and she didn't say anything about it, either. Funny.

We were already into the socks by that time. That's my thing. She liked socks before in the way that any girl might. She would go up to the socks in stores and say ooh, how fuzzy or ooh how cute these would go with _____. I had told her several months earlier that I love socks when she asked me what I liked or if I had any fetishes, I fessed to her that I have a sock obsession. She liked that because it meant she would have someone to buy her the fuzzy cute socks in the store (whenver there's money - which isn't too often). But she keeps saying I need to stop, because the socks we have won't fit into the storage bin anymore! 

 She wears any socks I ask her to, even the ones she thinks are ugly, like thigh hi pink socks with stripes because she loves me... 

 When it comes to strangling, she prefers hands. She says she likes the feeling of being handled roughly, and I usually start things out that way. Myself, I prefer a ligature of some type, because usually its difficult to use your hands during sex because you have to support your weight with your hands sometimes and that would mean putting all that pressurd on her neck, which would be too much. Few things are suitable for ligatures that won't end up hurting or leaving marks. Fortuntately, we've found the perfect material to avoid both: a pair of socks! Yess! I tie one sock around her neck for padding and protection, then use the other to choke her with. Really soft, thick socks work the best, feel relatively comfortable and avoid marks. 

Well, I gotta end things there for today. I'll pick up from here when I get a chance to post again. Thanks for reading!