How do you do it?

I wanna know.

How do you tell a woman that you would like to watch her suck off a stranger?

How do you tell a woman that you would like to watch her suck off a stranger and maybe help her with the task?

How do you tell a woman that you would like to have sex with her   ............................  while she is wearing a strap-on?

If you already have a woman, how do you do these things?

If you don't have a woman, where do you find one - like that?

Just curious. Somebody had to have some experiences in that area, some good and others, undoubdetly, funny now - looking back in time.