My wonderful mother and I have each taken personal pleasure from both the outraged and the exhilarating responses to our taboo-shattering revelations. But this boldness to exhibit ourselves and our delicious sin (some say sickness) did not materialize over night. It took years. Now, we are out there -- the horse out of the barn, so to speak. There is no going back, no retracting, no turning tail and hiding out. Nor do we want to. We like it amongst you, in the cyberworld as here. And, for the third summer, we like it amongst the small setting of like-minded supporters at our cottage who witness first hand the erotic life-affirming appeal of a middle-age man and his senior age mother manifesting the sexual love that other conventional lovers get to enjoy. Every person who has witnessed my mother and I in sexual intercourse comes away with the conclusion that, well, why not -- they obviously love each other very much. Who are they hurting -- no one. Yet, I am pretty sure that every man and woman who has watched us also leaves with that "emotional tingle" that they have seen something very taboo in our society -- perhaps the last taboo. And that, my friends, is why over half our guests have returned to watch us perform again. Le follie a deux. Means "the crazy couple". Bobby and Dottie They do each other so good...so sweet, so sexy...and let's not forget, so nasty. Always so nasty.

Why do I love to fuck my own mother? Why do people climb mountains? Why do they cross then ocean in small rafts? Because it is a challenge. I want to be different. I want to prove to myself that one does not have to be an imbecile to enoy incest. I want to prove to myself that I can do it and survive. What young healthy man did not have wet dreams about his mother?

The words in the above paragraph are not mine, but belong to one of the many men interviewed by Nancy Friday in her landmark book, "Men In Love". It was Nancy Friday's study based on the candid responses of thousands of men between the ages 14 through 60 that is still changing men's deepest feelings about their own sexuality. And helping women who care about men understand them as they have never understood before.

In our own informal take of attitudes on the incest my mother and I do, we both have found that the percentage of women not only approving, but showing an empathy that men are less inclined to grant is greater than their male counterparts. So, much progress has been made, much remains to be done. We will be here doing our part, with joy. Your comments are always welcome.

Bobby