Been a long time, again.  Still busy.  But something's coming up over the horizon (maybe) that will be a first for me.

Actually, I would have already written about it if they hadn't... okay, wait, I'll start at the beginning.

In addition to Imagefap I mess around on a couple of other sites.  I've gotten a lot of offers and come-ons but usually distance and shyness and all that stuff really kind of makes it tough.

But then I met this woman online.  We chatted ad hit it off.  Then I began chatting to her and her husband together.  They were nice.  They made me feel really comfy.  They sent me photos (clean ones). They're reasonably attractive people, not gorgeous, but then neither am I.  He's clean-cut and trim, she's a classic big brunette who's gotten a little bit bigger with time.  Good-looking in a wholesome vanilla way.  

They gave me their number and I actually got up the nerve to call them on the phone, something I promised myself I wouldn't do.  They were local, too, only about a half-hour away from where I live.  Long story short:  they popped the question.  They wanted me to help spice up their marriage.  They wanted me for a threesome.

I did my homework on them.  As a single girl I know what vulnerability can be, so I checked them out.  He's past 40, she's right around there.  He works for a finance company, she works for an accounting firm.  Two kids, one of each.  Both work where they said they work.  I checked further, using social network sites and other resources.  They're members of a church and a couple of local clubs.  Very very typical white suburban upper middle-class people.  Who wanted a Korean-American nerdy girl to play with in bed.  

I decided to go for it.  We met twice; once casually, for lunch, and once a little more formally, for dinner.  Best restaurants I've had in awhile, and of course they picked up the tabs.   

Well, after that, we set a date, and I waited nervously as it approached.

Then all of a sudden, they e-mailed me a manifesto basically saying they'd chickened out.  Marriage integrity blah blah blah.  I wrote a polite reply, we exchanged a couple of "hope I didn't hurt your feelings" messages and all was quiet for awhile.

Well, out of the blue, a day ago I got another long e-mail, which boiled down to "we've thought it over again, and..."

So we're going to have dinner tomorrow and if all goes well, we might be hooking up soon.

So my mind's been whirling.  I was actually sort of glad when they called it off the first time, as much as I was intrigued, because of all my usual worrying and self-doubt and shit.  But of course I regretted it.  Now it looks like I may have another shot.

We've set the ground rules and talked about our expectations.  We're all going to respect each others' limits.  He's had a vascectomy but will still be wearing condoms if / when he fucks me.  The wife's never been with a girl before but is eager to try.  

Any thoughts, people?  Advice?  Stuff to look out for?  General nasty comments?  Whatever?

I'll keep you informed!