Hi, Mister (or Ms) Anal Pron Maker.  You don't know me, but I'm a consumer of your products.  Even though I'd never admit it outside a group like this one.  But you should listen to me because I'm smart and have some original ideas and I'm a girl, and you know what they say about a woman's intuition.  Or something.

I was enjoying some anal pron the other day that I found on the intertubes, which is one thing I like to do when not actually working or masturbating while I'm supposed to be working (though watching it tends to lead to more masturbating).  It seemed like a kind of amateur production, which I like... normal-ish looking people, not terribly organized or anything, no stupid script.  It delivered the goods (girl taking cock up the pooper, girl getting rectum filled with jizz, shot of said jizz leaking back out a bit) but failed in the same way that all these films seem to fail- by not having any foreplay related to the ass.  The only indication was in the time that they cut and resumed action, something shiny had been placed on the girl's asshole.  

When I do it (anal sex, not porn flicks)... and unfortunately it's been awhile since I've had a guy to do it with, but when I do... I include all the steps. 

How about this-  ass licking, slow and sensual, becoming hard and intense, maybe the girl relaxing enough so the guy can get his tongue up in there.  Followed by showing the lube being applied to finger and butthole, finger fucking butthole, two fingers, and / or a toy, all the while showing the process of lube, lube, lube.  Then, finally, the lubing of the cock and the asshole once more, then the insertion.  

What, you ask, do I have a lube fetish?  No, but I do think it's important to include this.  For one thing it can be erotic.  I know it turns me on lubing up, or better yet having someone do it to me, and vice-versa.  It's sensual and fun.  Second, I think porn can be used to educate as well... talked to a lot of guys on here who say their wives / gfs hate it when they tried it.  Now I'm no sex expert but I think one of the problems might be not enough lube.  In any case, it sure can't hurt.  But watching too much porn can convince guys that girls can just get rammed up the shitter with no foreplay or anything... and convince the girls that there's something wrong with them if they can't, or that if it hurts cuz you do it wrong that means it's always supposed to hurt.  

Oh, and one more thing (WARNING turn back now if you'll be grossed out by mention of natural body functions) I've seen a lot of vids marked "oops" and "fail" where the big joke is that some dude making the film gets a little poop on a cock or finger, or the girl lets a little shit slip out after an anal scene.  While I'm not suggesting stuff like this is the most pleasant thing in the world, it's sure not the end of it.  Not everyone (read: just about everyone) has the time, equipment, and opportunity to flush themselveves out before commencing activity.  I mean, I'll warn the dude if I think something's up (or if something's coming down... yuk yuk), hygiene is a good thing in general, and making a porn film is obviously a planned event, but in real life if you play with the poop chute sometimes you're gonna get a little muddy.  Yeah, it can be embarrassing, but if your relationship ain't good enough to sit back and laugh about it a little then why are you letting them fuck your ass in the first place?  

just imho