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What about cock size?
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Had a day off yesterday (finally)... my uncle told me the night before I didn't have to come in, so it was unexpected and nice. I'd been working ten days straight and a break was nice. Did some shopping and ran some errands and got lucky to get into the dentist's chair on short notice (all clear)... not much of a day off but a day to get a lot done. So now I'm back in the saddle, so to speak, in the office at work, all quiet in the early morning, waiting for the day to start. It's going to be busy again but I hope to be able to masturbate at least a little.
Got a very nice comment on an earlier post (Getting to know my pussy) from a member who says guys have always had confidence issues brought on by porn penises. This is another thing I didn't think much about until a couple of years ago. I'm one of those girls who thinks it's how you use it that counts. Sure, big cocks can be impressive to look at (and I've seen all sizes in the chat room... hi guys! :-) but for me, anyway, it's much more about personality. After all, if it's long enough to stick it in me it's long enough to do the job.
My first BF was about 5" or so and didn't seem to have a problem with it. I sure didn't. The next guy I dated was about 6" and a guy I had a brief thing with was maybe a bit longer, but maybe it was just skinnier. I've never had a monster and frankly I wouldn't know what to do with one. Since I love anal sex, a monster might actually be a disadvantage. I might find out someday or I might not, but frankly I'm not going to worry about it too much. I'll take 'em as they come (and I hope they come a lot).
Back to work, and hopefully to play.
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Posted on : Jun 1, 2010
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Commented on Jun 25, 2010
I was proud of my penis until someone sayed I was small. Then I discovered I was on the bigger side. I'm still nervous when I talk about my penis size. Even that I know most girls doesn't care to much about it. The thing is, I do care.
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Commented on Jun 1, 2010
I do hope you get a chance to play ;)
To give perspective on porn penis envy, this would be the typical male scenario: as boys generally run straight to porn when puberty hits around 12yo, all they see are huge dicks which, although unrepresentative of the wider population, everyone has in porn. An unfounded embarrassment in the locker room has everyone covering themselves for shame of the others seeing your tiny todger (although 90% of them have the same size one) so there may be years of self-doubt and anxiety.
Although I am larger than average, I still had these mental issues prior to my first gf when I was 16. It makes me look back an laugh at my naiveity in thinking that girls were hung up on penis size, when I have yet to find a girl that is. Making the most of what size you have been given is the key.
Personality. Making the girl feel comfortable between themselves and you I have found is the most important thing. Being relaxed around one another will lead to more intuitive exploration of each others desires. Foreplay. Foreplay. Foreplay. I'm not talking 10mins, especially when broaching a new relationship, make it last for days to build up immense levels of anticipation. Even when a relationship is well founded, foreplay is the key to longevity of sexual interest. Have fun, don't be mechanical & regimented, and good times are sure to cum :D
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Commented on Jun 1, 2010
Mmmm very nice. Normally I never worried about the size of my stick but this can increase my self confidence any way and I'm sure that it works the same way to any guy who read this.
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