There, got your attention. :-)

But I'm not a tease; I really will talk about it a bit.

Back at work.  It's the busiest season for our business so I'm here a lot, earning money to pay for school in fall.  It's very early, still dark outside.  Sleep shedule all screwed up.  But the crew is coming in for an early install and someone has to be here.  Today it's going to be hopping so I won't have any time probably to just sit back and masturbate.  Oh well.

So instead let me talk about anal sex.

I've been surprised at the number of guys I've chatted with (hi guys! You know who you are) who tell me their GFs and wives don't like it, and that most women don't like it.  Before I came on here I had no conception one way or the other and I guess I'm surprised cuz I figured everyone would like what I do.

I've been playing with my butt pretty much ever since I stated playing with myself.  I've always thought it felt good.  I guess when I "discovered" it I didn't have any negative feelings toward it so never thought there was anything "wrong" with it.  So I kept doing it.  Fingers, pens, sharpie markers, skinny carrots, whatever I could find that would fit.  Obviously I was careful and didn't do anything crazy.

First time I had sex, I was really really terrified about getting pregnant, and my first real bf was open to stuff, so we tried anal.  I knew it felt good, so I was totally relaxed.  I trusted him, so I didn't fear it.  And it worked.  It was uncomfortable but didn't really hurt and as I got used to it and we learned what to do it got easier.  It was great and kept us busy for a couple of years.  I finally lost my virginity two years later... and that wasn't so long ago.   

So I told a guy I chatted with who says his wife hates it to get her to relax, to go slow, and to trust that it's good instead of painful.  I felt weird giving advice to a guy older than me, a married couple.  I really don't know what else to tell him except what works for me.  But I hope it helps.