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So how about sexual liberation? Well, It's certainly not compatible with monogamy! And there's a big problem with contemporary monogamous marriage anyway. Inevitably, boredom sets in, the sex gets less frequent, and there's a faiilure to recognize that ultimately you have to take care of each other's needs if your marriage is to stay solid. Once your sex life dies, and you're no longer lovers, there's not a whole lot holding you together. You're essentially over as a couple, even if you stay living together for years, maybe to finish raising kids. Anything can blow up the rest of your marriage and result in divorce. And really, why would you want to be married to someone if you don't want this person for a lover and/or they don't want you? Far to many people don't recognize that if you want someone all to yourself you need to be (permanently) willing to take care of their sexual needs, and that expecting someone to not cheat even if you're not willing to service them with any regularity is unreasonable. I think that under contemporary conditions, monogamy is a one-way ticket to a sexless marriage ( a complete mockery of the real thing!) and probably eventually divorce. And I think it's dumb anyway, just because with only one sex partner allowed ever, you're both missing out on a ton of sexual pleasure you could be having! So your jealousy and demands for exclusivity can end up costing you a lot. Cleave unto each other? Yes, always--but unto many others as well... Down with monogamy! Be promiscuous!
I think monogomy is particularly problematic for highly sexed women even more than the men because of womens far greater sexual potential and capacity. To the point where it's actually quite cruel to expect an ultra-high libido woman to confine herself to her husband. Even if she does she's going to be miserable. She wants to fuck--a lot more than she gets to in practice! And eventual cheating is pretty much inevitable... Of course there have to be rules, particularly to avoid catching or transmitting disease, use condoms if your partners can't show recent test results, have yourselves tested regularly and so on. But this is very doable with the right attitude.
So how can a man promote his wife's sexual liberation? And his own in the process? Well to begin with do as much as you can together. Talk about sex--a lot! Be willing to do anything, I mean go to real extremes to get her off. Discover her kinks, and encourage them, Encourage her to read 'dark romance' novels to get more pervy ideas (women are dirrrty..trust me!) and really any sort of literary porn aimed at women. Yes, a lot of it is badly written, but the kinky sex scenes are the real point. And some of it's funnier than hell! Maybe set up a goon cave for her to watch and edge to porn. Long-term gooning practices can really raise a woman's libido over time, making her even sluttier! Suggest you take up swinging together, dogging too. Let her know that you admire promiscuous women for giving so much pleasure to so many people. Ask if she'd like you to round up some studly young guys for a gangbang. You should never pressure her to do anything, that would ruin everything, but always encourage her sexual proclivities, and support her in having sex with anybody she wants. You'll become 'partners in crime' in exploring her deepest, darkest desires--and also your own!
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