We all come here with very personal interests in sex. It's OK if we are looking for different things. The same goes for who we are as sexual beings. It's OK if we are different in that way too. I hope we can find ways to relate even if we are wildly different. This site will be less fun and we will learn less if we only talk to people with the same kinks and sex vibes we have.

For heaven's sake (whoever and whatever you may think is 'up in heaven'), let's not see each other in political terms. That includes identity politics. I love identities, be they race or gender or culture. I will find yours interesting, whatever it is. No matter how much Marx you have read, I think if we look into each other thoughtfully, we will find at least as much that we have in common as we have that might be fodder for a 'dialectic' controversy.

If nothing else, we can all say with certainty that we think sex is central to both our own indentity and our happiness. And I know we have a common interest in preserving our freedom to play and fantacize in these bizarre sexual halls, to defend our freedom against the many who hate sex in all is manifestations, as to support the owners of ImageFap in making this place available to us. 

So what about grace? That is the effort we all make (and it *does* take a conscious effort) to extend good will to other people who spend time here and to help each other make things right if we offend someone's sensibility. There are too many naked bodies on display for us to waste time arguing about how we want to play with them.