My secret life is no longer a secret. 

If you have not read this my friend's BF had seen my pics and saved them. My then saw them on his phone and assumed I was fucking him. When I told her I was posting online and he must have found them she told others... and then it spread. 

So now it seems like everyone knows. 

However "the flame burns twice as bright burns half as long". 

Or to put it another way,

 

Live for today, not for tomorrow and to hell with future and further consequences.