I often have thoughts of incidental or normalised cfnm with my partners family mainly the future mother in law but basically any adult female in her side of the family. I think it comes from a few cfnm stories I read on litterotica that have stuck in my head. I find any cfnm a turn on, not necessarily forced, not necessarily involving sexual contact. I really love that strangely erotic but ever so nonchalant, gentle and normalised persausion an expectation of male nudity when in the presence of a woman or women - that awkward pause at that very moment, that very gentle and quiet exchange, that personal boundary quietly broken, with hushed toned voices and that ever amused glance from a lady who has just persauded you to strip completely naked and stay that way just for her pleasure - the ruse may be a spilt substance or wet through in need of drying or the weather is hot and it's just the done thing in our family kind of thing - I love it, I crave it!!

 I haven't had many instances where I can get naked in front of a strange woman or someone who normal societal expectation would normally not permit it but when I have I have relished that little moment, those minutes of excitement and the feeling of exposure, submittance and vulnerablility. 

I once arranged to meet up with a lady I met online just for sex, we had been chatting for a little while - enough to confess my varied interests, she lived quite drive away and I when I arrived at aroud 2pm it was all very normal, we had a cup of tea and was chatting about general stuff, she was getting laundry in and out of the machine then she says - "what exactly is cfnm then?" so I go on to tell her it's clothed female naked male and explained that I liked to feel vulnerable and exposed etc so she then said "prove it, go on get 'em off!" - she was leaning against her kitchen worktop with a cup of tea clasped in both hands with this excited, cheeky grin on her face and I was suddenly very dry mouthed, and lost for words - I found myself standing up and undressing, I carefully folded and placed my clothing as it came off on the chair beside me and very shortly I was in the kitchen of someone I had literally met in person half an hour earlier stark naked and being ogled by a very excited lady, she called me closer so she could get a good look and then asked - "and you enjoy this?" I just nodded back at her, she said "good - I'm enjoying this too! - let's go and sit in the garden!!" - thus began a very fun afternoon!, we basically just chatted a while and then she took me upstairs for sex, we had a lovely time and being the first slightly submissive guy she'd ever had I think she was a convert - her current fb fancied himself as a dom and she found it all very unfulfilling as he would only satisfy himself - and I'm all about her satisfaction!!, we met up a few more times but she lived a 3 hour drive away and that was a bit too much unfortuntely.

Fantasies I have include, waking up either at my gf's mothers house, a holiday let or something similar and just wandering out of the bedroom completely naked and being in full view of my gf and her mother or whoever else might have been there, neighbour, aunts etc - and it just being completely normal or expected - like that "dont be embarrassed - we've seen it all before" kind of thing - I dont know why but that kind of gentle presumption that it's not my choice but sounds like it is really tweaks my kink, seriously I'm getting a weird internal twinge writting about it now! 

 I have been to a naturist club (there's two near me!) and I loved flapping about for all the older ladies to enjoy the view - was so deliciously erotic, I was approached by a lady who wanted to fuck me , she was in very good shape but I really dont get anything from the idea of fucking for the sake of it - I just cant do it, I need a bit of a connecction to get hard enough - I suppose I need to believe it's more than just friction on my dick. the naturism is lovely but believe it or not I think I'd prefer it if the ladies were all in bikinis! 

When I was with one of my ex's I used to fantasies that she was regularly cheating on me, I think I thought she was too good for me and deserved more - at the time I really wasn't into cuckold porn but I later realised that this fantasy I was having would describe beta cuckold husband fetish to a tee - I would imagine her going away for the weekend and her mother rolling up to keep an eye on me, and of course I would be naked most of the time and be receiving regular over the knee spankings and on call to serve her every need including eating her pussy. I was getting interested in wearing knickers at around this time and was really starting to enjoy exploring the way these things were making me feel, I don't know if I'm more of a man for admitting what I like or less of a man for actually enjoying wearing kinky things - I really cant answer that one - I just like the way they feel and I like the way wearing them makes me feel - and honestly I'm not asking for anyone's oppinion on it. I have found quite a worrying association with the worlds most prescribed medication and a link to suppressed testosterone and since I've been off them I can confirm that my leanings are noticeably more masculine so if you are on STATINS of any kind have a look at how they might affect you. 

Cfnm event, I have found various events associated with the cfnm fetish and although I would probably attend out of sheer curiosity I think I prefer more intimate settings - besides, right now I'm not in great physical condition (I've just had major heart surgery and need to trim down a bit).