My wife is in her 50s also and she has no intrest in sex but I still do. I still think she is sexy and I love the way she looks. Thats why I play in her underware drawer and raid the hamper to fullfill my sexual needs. I guess it makes me feel as if I am still connected to her sexually. I could have an affair with another woman but I dont have the balls or the nerve to try at this point in my life. If she found out she would be devastated and I would feel terrible. Women like to brag and gossip with their freinds so it would easily get back to her.

So I think maybe I could have a stroke buddy, a married guy with a fat, sexy wife and we could share our wives panties and pics. We could dress up in our wives lingere and take care of each other sexually in our bedrooms. Stroking each other off with the panties. I would love to suck his dick while he is looking at my wifes pics and sniffing her panties. I have been with a guy before and I liked it and consider myself bisexual but this would be a whole nuther level.

My reasoning is that a married, beta husband with a traditional family that is in the same kind of relationship with his wife would be less likely to tell anyone and we could keep our affair secret.