"It's just chat, right?" - these days I'm not so sure. 

In this context, chat being DMs, the chat feature here or other messaging apps - basically messaging a group or people for sexy talk, most likely with images - this is image fap- maybe vids. As an enjoyed of such activities almost the entire time I've been on this site, its something I feel relatively able to chat shit about and hopefully make sense coz I probably won't proof read - fuck there's a chance this won't where even be read. But better to record and document. 

Over simplification and overthrowing complexities may make fun thought experiments are 4.45am after a couple days awake with jaw muscles seized together- drink water- but while useful simplification can easily be dismissive. Quicker to forget the complex variables and think ahead to things more pleasant. 

But it's the complexities that inevitably trip you up and bog you down at so.e point. Still needing to be assessed. 

it is just chat, that's not incorrect.  but it's an interaction or rather a communication. Many people won't worry or think about it's use or impact. Just a bit of fun, easy to log off, block, delete Nd forget- mayve just to hop on again who knows.

But others, such as myself, enjoy thus form of communication. Enjoy using it for connection, gratification, avoiding boredom and having a bit of fun too.  There's a very real conversation to be had about becoming reliant or chatting too much to fill in gaps of a lonely life.  Or unfulfillement.  I know that all too well. 

It can be very useful to take stock, thi k about what applies most to yourself, and above all k kW that it's different for us all!! Getting lonely and passed off that no one in the chat finds your joke funny, or replies to your hi among the rest, or replies at all.  Your not sending a legal request for information or even a polite one - this is the Internet, there's no need for people to ve polite. Do not take that personally or it will grind you down! 

it's a risk, maybe minor - hell it's more annoying having everyone reply qt once and having to pick who to concentrate on chatting to, then hours of nothing. 

the much more serious risk - comes with thinking it is not just chat.  It's exploring fantasies and scenarios - role playing and kinks that are very subjective, individual and changing and evolvining.  whether enjoyment of any one and of what amount is a conscious choice im not sure. But participation and indulgence of it is certainly something that one can choose to do or choose to avoid. That's the focal point.

I can only refer to my own experiences, but it has seemed fairly easy to not worry much about the distinction or necessity for avoiding something pr someone.  If they are chatting something you don't like - don't reply. Easy.  For most its is fairly easy. But don't underestimate that temptation exists and is different for us all and what we are tempted by. Things can change and grow, temptations for one thing may grow to another, or be revealed to be underpinned by so.ething else.    My most poignant example is temptation to agree and reply to things I don't like, donr enjoy etc  but do anyway because I'm lonely, I want to be  easy going and likeable. So I'll entertain the idea of enjoying a topic to keep the chat going. 

Doing this too much or without realising, doesn't sit right. Worse, it led to normalising it as a topic I enjoy, and developing further in slight ways I did enjoy.  most especially  while under the influence and having lower inhibitions.  Knowing its something I don't want you continue, the thought grew to avoid! Don't entertain it. Don't let it beco.e normal. Remember your limits and feel better when you stick to them it feels better amd is more fun - and if that's not any reason for anything I don't know what is. Exploring rabbitholes can be fun... as long as you remember your path above ground. Don't get lost and give up!

The cause for finally putting these thoughts together, the chatter who seemed new and nieve - it's just chat... maybe they were just a bit drunk or not wanting serious words from a sleep deprived gooner. But hopefully they will read them again tomorrow or another time and they will ring true. It can just be chat - but it can have consequences too. Especially unregulated spaces being jumped into without a care. the risks may be minimal for them - but they are still risks. People learn best in small steps along their journey - better to give some knowledge than they hit a huge hurdle of "shit how did it get this way"  unfortunately, if anyone knows the truth of that wall of despair that cNnot be turned back from when tok late - it is I.   Deeps Loner Chat vol: random. 

5.30 jeez that took 45 mins!! Lol