I installed grindr knowing I had the evening to myself and my wife would be gone. One dude sent two crappy pictures where I could just barely make out that he's a black guy wearing blue clothes and that's it, and I kind of ignored it. But then he sent follow-up questions, and requests for more pics. They were all dirty questions like if I swallow, deepthroat, etc., and just to entertain him at least I answered honestly. And I sent him one ass pic, and then took the time to shave everything from the waist below and by the time I was done I saw he wanted more pics with specific poses, and I was happy to oblige. I was a little skeptical about hooking up with this guy but he was the only black guy messaging me, and I loved these types of questions and enthusiasm so I just rolled with it.

He said he could host after 9. I kind of debated about what to wear. I loved the idea of wearing my wife's panties but couldn't work my way up to that quite yet so I just went commando under some jogging shorts and a tee shirt When I put in the address he gave me it wasn't far but I couldn't make out exactly what the address was of. I knew the area was changing rapidly and double checked it's the right address and he said something along the lines of just plugging it into the GPS and don't worry. Kind of another flag to me. But I proceeded anyway, horny as I was and entered a parking lot where the GPS brought me. He showed up in front of an office building there, wearing a security guard outfit - made more sense now. He got close to me and whispered to follow him and we went to the side of the building. So this was weird, but then he asked point blank if I do anal, and I answered the right thing and said only with condoms. He smelled like cigarettes - a little turn off but I didn't mind in the end. We stopped at some convenient spot and quickly got to it. He got out his phone while he pulled down his pants, quick to get to it and he was hung, like legit BBC in porn. His dick was big soft too (which I think is an underrated feature of many black men). I quickly got to licking it and sucking him, and looked up and saw him holding his phone facing me. I told him I'd try to deepthroat him but made some pitiful attempt in vain. I mostly loved kissing and licking the length of his dick. He finally started jacking off while I sucked his balls, and some cum went on my face and some on my tongue.

We tried to hook up a another more time but the timing didn't work out and then I never saw him again. I asked if he had the video but he said it was so dark it didn't come out good. At first I hated the idea of being video'd but now I do find the small risk of exposure hot. When I fantasize about the whole thing now or wonder if I could do it again or see him again, part of me wishes I took pics of myself in my wife's panties to gauge his reaction or whatever. And maybe I just let him fuck me raw if that's what he wants to do. In fact, if he pushed to just fuck me or didn't ask or whatever, I'd probably have let him.