So it is now complete. It took around 8-9 months but my long term partner, a man who has never been a sub, is now completely submissive to me. 

 I was the submissive one for years until we started this experiment. Our roles have completely switched and I love it. The final straw for him to give in completely was pegging. He didn't want it at all as he felt it made him less of a man. Well, he is now my little bitch. I even made him come home from work last week just to suck my strapon so he knows who is the boss. After I madeade him feel humiliated I sent him back to work. It has kept me wet all weekend just thinking about the control I now have over him. 

The next step is getting pics/video of me owning him for everyone to see. God he's going to hate it hehe.