Part II

Continuing my last blog post. There is an big difference how we, both, men and women react to nudity, sex and how we see each other's in our daily routine. Once more, it's not sexually objectifying people, but how our body react with what we see.

Now, there is some factors that I trying to remember, one of them is, is that kind view related to the fact of many of us (mostly men) were exposed to porn since very young age? That was on of the questions or affirmations that I read somewhere in the Web. My view is, could be in part yes. I can't tell if would be different if I didn't saw porn material since young age. I can't argument opposite in this argument. What I can say, i doubt it could different for me, and maybe for most men, I think. Because, men have an hormonal development very strong in puberty and with that, sexual desires come in any way. We can see an hot woman in tv, magazine or street, to start sexualizing in our head ( not in that dirty porn way), but, the desire of seeing them naked, touching o. Their breasts and things like that. It's why a believe, being exposed to porn could not be a strong factor to justify the high sexual drive in most of us, men.

For me, sexual objectifying a person, most are women who suffer, is who externalise out in a dirty way, with no sympathy and disrespectful way. With such a way of an object that is used and discarded with no feeling to that person. This leads to another subject that I quite like to talk, if I was single, would like to live in "sexual friendship life" were i would idealised, dream or make it that way. But for another topic.

Not only porn have the guilty here, but the friendship circles between teenagers and adults. I already was a teenager and after work with several group of men in (mechanical environment) and I saw behaviours that I didn't agree. For example, it's talks like "i would fuck her from behind like a dog" and the others laugh and add dirty details too, when a bunch of those teenagers and adults, never had sex or don't even had GF or wife. This builds wrong perceptions about sex and sexual pleasure. Porn also bring, fake role models and behaviours, that "this is the way we treat a woman".

We can have such sexual pleasure, thoughts, watching, observing each other's without objectifying. It's our nature, but we need to more positive and respectful.

Thanks all. More sex and less fights