Its fascinating or not, depending from which point of view, the way our biology works. When I go out, doing my routine things, such supermarket, stores and even the street, I feel compelled in watching the body of women who i pass by. Now, before this could lead to any misjudgement, in my opinion, this is not sexualy objectifying the female body. 

I know that, there is a good part of people will think it is, but for me it isn't and it's here that enters, has already post in past posts, our biology. There is plenty articles that show to us, that men and women are very different, am saying in the field of, sexual attraction. Yes we have plenty differences, but on this field of attraction or better, sexual attraction. This biological differences, to be more precisely, our hormonal system! Men, react strongly to physical stimulation, way more than women( in a general way). The shape, forms and even the size can trigger a strong reactions in our body. By other hand, women more emotional, more about feelings and affection.

 This is something that intrigues me a lot, trying to understand  or even to accept our differences. But I feel, in general that people lack a lot this type of understanding. Leaving the sexual pleasure just restricted to the basis and not trying to figure out what men or women can explore more or to elevate their sexual life.

Returning a bit back, I have this necessity of watching, observing the beauty of the female body! Not staring, not harassing, or being pervert. I think our bodies are codes, that are cifered inside us, resulting that kind of "wow, what an amzing body!", "those huge breasts are hot!" And so on! Sexually and non sexually, to me it's legit! I can think, if an woman would think that of me I would feel flattered, empowered and desired! Even if just for physical observation. Finding each other physically and sexually appealing doesn't mean we are objefying sexually our bodies. (My opinion)

 I know and I feel it, that women don't have this kind of observation (again, general speaking). I see it, for e.g. my wife. Once we walked by the shore in a beach and we got far until we reached a nudist beach. Has we get there, a couple was playing beach tennis, I only could see the woman's breasts, bouncing and jiggling. Not to mention, his penis also bounced and jiggled. I started to be a bit aroused by watching her body, completely nudes just in front of me and also next to my wife! XD

It's not everyday that we see a naked woman just in front of me. Well, I asked to my wife, do you like to watch men naked, for example, this guy there? She immediately said no! I was saying, just watching physically, to see her reaction. She said, prefer to see with some underpants on it. You don't like to see other men's penis? "Ewww! No! Just yours!' I realise there we are quite different  in this matters. In case you wondering, no, she didn't lie!

 Obviously I didn't say I liked to watch or she would be disgusted and can change the couple relationship. When I have the opportunity, I like to ask to some female friends, what are their insights on seeing another man naked or in porn. The answer is always, NO. 

Clearly, it's an huge difference between both genders on this matter (general speaking). 

End of part I