While chatting here I get confused sometimes - are we still talking about complete fantasy or something potentially real. It makes me feel a bit uncomfy, especially if chatmate is under impression that it is potentially real, while I know it's just fantasy. And sometimes  it is difficult to make it clear without ruining the vibe.

Thus this list. 
It is a complete fantasy IF: 

- If there is no female or very feminine shemale participating in some way (like offering her feet to worship). at least at first and then just watching 
- If I am completely feminized and look the way. I am over 100 kg and cannot remove my hair due to risks of being discovered so this is very limited
- If we are chatting about anything risky to break my confidentiality - I won't allow people from my regular life to find out about my kinks