My name is Steffanie, I'm 32 years old, married for 11 years. Happy? Hmmm... no. But I'm not dissatisfied.

My husband (36) is completely normal. A bit old-fashioned on the one hand, but not on the other.

Old-fashioned in the sense that I don't have to work, I just take care of the house, and I'm lovingly looked after.

The sex is just sex, vanilla. I think that's a good thing.

He's not a wimp and makes me happy 2 or 3 times a week.

He's modern in that... I had an affair after three years of marriage. When he found out, there was no big deal. He simply integrated him (28) into our relationship.

Yes, there are three of us. Two men and I, and we've been having sex as a threesome ever since.

I also have other sexual desires. That was already clear when we got married. No, it's a very good marriage, I can't complain. He takes very good care of me. Twice a year, I visit an S&M club, where I get a good beating from a childhood friend.

That's fine with my husband. If I'm happy, he's happy too.

It's not his thing, but he takes it with a good laugh when I'm covered in bruises for weeks.

And? Nothing. And! That's it. End of story.