I just saw the date of my last update here, 2018!

I realise that so much has changed since then and wanted to update it all.

I was as COVID unravelled our lives asked to return to nursing which I quickly declined but that put all of the rest of life into perspective.

My social life withered quickly as we retreated into ourselves and the avenues for my BDSM interests abruptly halted. My younger sister had by chance just left her husband after discovering him with a woman and she moved to a village 40 miles away with her teen daughter.

It took over a year me to realise that a move away from London maybe the right thing and I bought a cottage on the other side of the village from her, that was almost 4 years ago now.

 While the volume of my niche interests has diminished I am now more thoughtful but no less intense.