So many gentlemen have been asking about me, so I thought I’d share a little about myself. Whether it’s interesting or dull, here’s a step on the road of self-exploration.

I come from a lower-middle-class background in Scotland and was fortunate to attend a good school and university. I made wonderful friends and learned a great deal about the world and people—though not as much as I would have liked. Looking back, I sometimes feel I was a bit of a prude, prioritizing work and study over boys and romance. I always preferred tearooms and second-hand bookshops to raves and nightclubs.

After graduating, I met a lovely man. He worked hard, and when he was promoted two years ago, he became even more devoted to his job. I supported him as best I could, but I found myself stuck in a rut. An English degree doesn’t open as many doors as I had hoped, and the publishing world is incredibly competitive. I considered moving to London but wasn’t quite ready for such a big step.

Unfortunately, my ex-partner started drinking heavily to cope with stress. His behaviour became difficult—angry, unpredictable, and at times, intimidating. I didn’t know how to help him, and in the end, I felt like I was holding him back as much as he was pulling me down. So I left.

Now, I work in a hotel in northern Scotland, on the edge of the Highlands. I adore my colleagues, and we make such a great team that I’ve started wondering if hotel management might be my true calling. There’s something deeply satisfying about ensuring our guests have the best possible experience.

When it comes to intimacy, I suppose you could say I’m a bit of a prude. I haven’t had much experience—just two partners, one a brief fling and the other my long-term boyfriend of three years. Right now, I’m not looking for another relationship. My recent breakup is still fresh, and my emotions feel raw and sensitive.

If my ex wanted me back and truly reassured me that things would be different, I honestly don’t know if I’d say no. But he’s married to his work, and I doubt he’d ever admit to any wrongdoing. So, rather than dwelling on the past, I’m choosing to focus on myself over the next year—figuring out what I truly want from life.

I also want to reconnect with my body and be more present in the real world. I tend to live in my head, wrapped up in books and stories, which can sometimes make life feel like a novel rather than something to actively experience. That’s something I’d like to change. I plan to go to more social events, meet new people, and build deeper friendships.

My dad’s LP collection got me into classic rock, and I’ve always loved the female rock aesthetic. Suzi Quatro, Lzzy Hale, and Joan Jett are huge inspirations—their style is bold, confident, and effortlessly cool. I have a small collection of both new and vintage leather jackets, and I love wearing my favorites when I’m out shopping or meeting friends for dinner and drinks.

I’ve noticed that leather is a bit of a niche interest on this site, and I do enjoy looking at galleries of women in leather jackets and shiny leggings. I also appreciate beautiful, high-quality lingerie and have started growing my own collection.

Recently, I treated myself to a few new toys and products, and I’m looking forward to exploring a little self-indulgence while enjoying friendly, fun, and flirty chats with respectful men and women. That said, I’m not interested in anyone getting too fresh or possessive—it’s a real turnoff and won’t encourage me to engage. I’m always happy to chat about everyday things, and, truthfully, I often find people’s stories more interesting than anything else. My libido isn’t particularly high, so connection and conversation mean a lot more to me.

Anything you share with me will, of course, be treated with the utmost confidence.

That’s all for now—thanks for reading! 😊