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Starting a Blog
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Fellow ImageFap users:
I am going to try to start a blog, posting randomly on a variety of topics. I'm thinking about doing stories, asking questions about various kinks and sexual interests, and posting about my experiences. My interest is in starting conversations about these topics between any user who reads them. I'm no authority on much of anything, but I can write what I think and see if it resonates with anyone out there. So, if you have any interests you would like me to cover, please drop me a line and I'll see what I can do about throwing it out there for conversation.
From my profile you can see my porn interests are based on women being feminine - I long for the days when women wore hose, and slips and dresses, heels, figure-control undergarments, etc. It's true - I watched Mad Men for the fashion (and stayed for the bad behavior!) Somehow hose went out of style over the past few years, and I'm in mourning.
I also like power exchange - mainly dominant women controlling men. I don't care for humiliation stuff, and degradation/ debasement is a no-go. But Female Led Relationships (FLR) and soft Dom/sub roleplay is a total turn on. I like female bondage, mostly rope-based. Again, this is for consensual (or consensual non-consent fantasy play) activities between educated adults. I like the helplessness and security of good bondage, and find personally it is a turn-on. I can see why many people get into this just for the sexual thrill of being restrained. Adding sexual teasing or restrained sexual contact can be a hoot for some. I respect those who don't see the point - there's something for everyone. Of course, males tied by dominant females can be a major turn-on as well.
That leads to male chastity play. Personally I like relationship-based chastity play (though have never experienced it) or the neighbor/ co-worker keyholder fantasy. I understand the cuckold kink, but it's not my bag. I'll likely be writing about this and asking questions as we go.
Enough for today. As I said, no regular posting schedule - my life doesn't allow that. Please let me know if you have any topics you want covered. Oh, and for viewers of my Galleries: I know the pics came out super-small. WTF? I'm going to re-post as soon as I can find the time, with the images much larger. Be patient with me - I'm not a techie. Unless you're a strong woman in a white bnlouse and pencil skirt, black nylons and 4" heels. In that case, please punish me for my multiple failings. Frequently.....
Sailor_249
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Posted on : Feb 3, 2025
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Commented on Jul 20, 2025
OK, Bloggers and readers, I have a question for you. Anal sex - what's the attraction?
Men who like prostate stimulation (whether gay or straight) I understand. My experience with my priostate has been mixed results, but I got a couple of "Wow!" moments so at least I understand the concept. So whether it's another dude back there or a babe with a strap-on, find your thrill where you can.
But for male/female sex? That's what I don't get. I'm not young, so the porn I grew up on had the 'formula': Girl-girl, girl-boy, and maybe a multiple partner scene. Then they started adding in an anal scene here and there (him doing her in the butt). These days it is almost difficult to find a set of photos, movie or story that doesn't quickly go to anal sex. In fact, try and find a photo or movie that has vaginal sex! And that's what I don't understand - a perfectly good pussy RIGHT THERE - it's not as if you can't find one. And the guy is shown preferring anal. Oh, and they never use the restroom prior, never enema to clean out real good, and they use a little spit on the anus as lubrication. NOT! I wonder how many dunces mimic what they see in porn and end up with injuries and a mess?
15 years ago I was listening to a radio shock jock in Los Angeles, and he was asked why guys ask women for anal sex. His answer? "Because you let us!" I have no doubt there are rare women whose anatomy and nerve endings are such that they could find properly executed anal sex to be pleasurable. But they don't have a prostate, and the nerve anomalies have to be rare, so what do they get out of it? (The actresses get double or triple fee for anal over vaginal sex, but that's another issue.)
So help me out if you know - what gives with this fascination with anal sex?
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Commented on Jul 20, 2025
OK, Bloggers and readers, I have a question for you. Anal sex - what's the attraction?
Men who like prostate stimulation (whether gay or straight) I understand. My experience with my priostate has been mixed results, but I got a couple of "Wow!" moments so at least I understand the concept. So whether it's another dude back there or a babe with a strap-on, find your thrill where you can.
But for male/female sex? That's what I don't get. I'm not young, so the porn I grew up on had the 'formula': Girl-girl, girl-boy, and maybe a multiple partner scene. Then they started adding in an anal scene here and there (him doing her in the butt). These days it is almost difficult to find a set of photos, movie or story that doesn't quickly go to anal sex. In fact, try and find a photo or movie that has vaginal sex! And that's what I don't understand - a perfectly good pussy RIGHT THERE - it's not as if you can't find one. And the guy is shown preferring anal. Oh, and they never use the restroom prior, never enema to clean out real good, and they use a little spit on the anus as lubrication. NOT! I wonder how many dunces mimic what they see in porn and end up with injuries and a mess?
15 years ago I was listening to a radio shock jock in Los Angeles, and he was asked why guys ask women for anal sex. His answer? "Because you let us!" I have no doubt there are rare women whose anatomy and nerve endings are such that they could find properly executed anal sex to be pleasurable. But they don't have a prostate, and the nerve anomalies have to be rare, so what do they get out of it? (The actresses get double or triple fee for anal over vaginal sex, but that's another issue.)
So help me out if you know - what gives with this fascination with anal sex?
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Commented on Jul 20, 2025
Sorry I was slow to see this comment. Yes, one can purchase nylon stockings and pantyhose, but that wasn't my sadness. My complaint is that women are not wearing them in public anymore. We used to get a treat just by walking down the street or my heaven - in an office! Heels, nylon-clad legs, skirts, an occasional nylon slip peeking out from underneath. THAT was the good old days. Now, bare legs, flats, pants. Sad, Good bras are still around, though, so we can get uplift, straps visible through blouses and great shapes. Each decade's fashion has something to celebrate I guess!
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Commented on Feb 4, 2025
Hello there, nice to meet a fellow blogger here (not that I've written anything yet..... but hopefully someday lol)
Your post is interesting and rather funny .....when you wrote that you are mourning for the hoses, but I don't think I got what you meant exactly......I mean you still get them in all varieties and materials everywhere
Anyways...
Best wishes for your writing
--lc
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Commented on Feb 3, 2025
I like it. You describe things very well - especially realistically for the purely erotic area. It shows a high level of moral competence - because education is also part of it.
Please don't forget the aspects of sympathy and love, don't limit yourself exclusively to the physical, visual.
In pornography we are very concerned with aesthetics - each to his own. But pictures are pictures, films are just moving pictures. In reality, it is often peculiarities that cannot be captured in pictures and films that make us take a closer look at a particular person.
Please never forget that pornography - as an art form - should inspire our imagination, but should never shape our real thoughts and feelings.
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