It's only like that in the plastic world of pornography, and I can't imagine what kind of men are really into it. When you think of your best sex experience - were they scenes like those in mainstream porn? Not mine. And women don't actually dream about men with huge cocks and anal sex - because that hurts most of them!
Of course it's cool to watch porn that shows you scenes and practices that you might not want to experience yourself - but watching is great too! However, I found that it was a horror to see these porn actresses in real life (at a sex fair) - those fake bodies and lifted faces were spooky, and the whole business extremely cheap and primitive. A vulgar fair!