Hello friends, dads, grandfathers, stepdads, fathers-in-law and admirers of our gorgeous daughters everywhere. Today I am launching this blog, In Celebration of Our Horribly Sexy Daughters. 

 If you have a sexy daughter, step-daughter, granddaughter, daughter-in-law, or enjoy admiring the daughters of other dads, please follow my blog and join in the discussion!

 It is VERY COMMON for fathers to experience sexual attraction to our daughters as they develop into beautiful young women... and often those feelings of love, attraction and affection can be especially strong... powerful and intense. The love we have as fathers for our daughters is unique to the bond between us, and often transcends simple lust or the paternal love that is familiar and commonplace. For fathers whose love for our daughter goes beyond the "socially acceptable" love, the potential for a relationship of passion, love and desire like no other can be intensely distracting and disruptive to daily life at home. Approaches to this circumstance are as unique as are our relationships as family members, fathers and daughters.

 Many of us find that talking and sharing our experiences with other fathers and daughters, men and women who have struggled with these intense feelings, can be extraordinarily helpful, even exciting and transformative. Some proud fathers and daughters enjoy sharing photos to help people understand the strong attraction they feel.

 Care must always be taken when discussing topics that are generally considered "taboo." I encourage you to establish trust and get to know the friends you are making, whether online or offline, as you share the precious aspects of your life and family with them. Even open forums and online places that seem to be welcoming to diverse ideas and experiences can respond with control and censorship if they believe that "taboo" discussions are too controversial. So be mindful, ask friends and acquaintances about their experiences chatting or posting on these topics before you open up your heart in the "wrong" place and find yourself needing to create new accounts or build new communities in other places. I am also open to discussing your questions privately if you'd like; please feel free to drop me a message to my account here, but please do not go into detail... just let me know that you have a question or are looking to converse. Thank you for your discretion!

 A word about a word... you will not find the word "taboo" on this blog very much after today. Why? I believe that taboo is a very subjective term; one person's normal may be another person's taboo! More than that, however, taboos seem to most often develop in situations where the sexual and erotic desires people naturally have may be especially strong and otherwise difficult to control. Taboos are therefore a sort of "false" social construction to control people's sexuality (or to aid people in working to control themselves). This can be short-sighted and serve to diminish enjoyment in life and to reduce our natural desires to explore our sexuality, and the many creative ways we can relate with other people. More on this later... I just wanted to say that I will be striving to use more inclusive and sex-positive language as people explore our important feelings about these vital topics and significant relationships in our lives.

 Thanks for reading! I look forward to your feedback, and will continue posting as regularly as I can!