Very few Dom men understand their role in a Dom/sub relationship. Tying someone up and hitting them is not domination, it is sadism. The true Dom understands that his role is to nurture, support, educate and develop the submissive partner throughout their journey. If the sub has not had their needs met, and is not completely grateful at the end of the day, the Dom has failed in his duty.

My earlier strange experience with 'S' and 'D' left me with an unused plan for a BDSM scenario; something I was keen to develop and use. It wasn't long before I had an opportunity to do so.

I had decided to close my consultancy business as it mostly involved sitting in my office alone all day. I needed to get out in the real world and do something more fulfilling. I had previously lectured part time at a university and chose to look again at education as a career move.

I was offered a senior position at a college near where I lived to teach sixteen year old students to ninety year old adult learners. I was made course leader with a team of other lecturers, and a lady departmental head to support me. This team were a great group of people who regularly socialised, especially at the end of term when we would all spend the evening at a local hostelry.

 

On one occasion the wine was flowing freely, and I found myself sitting slightly apart from the rest of my team, talking to my boss. She (yes, another 'S') was separated from her husband, twelve years younger and about a foot shorter than me. 'S' had been present in my classroom during a recent OFSTED inspection, and made a joke about how 'Masterful' I'd been with the class during the lesson. I sensed that she found it a bit of a turn on, but the subject had been dropped by this time so I didn't take advantage of the opportunity.

 

At the end of the evening we all started to walk back towards the railway station. 'S' lived very close to our route, and when we got near she invited us all in for a coffee to end the evening. Myself and another lecturer took up her offer. Finishing her coffee, the other lecturer decided she'd had enough, but I accepted the offer of a second cup and decided to stay a little longer. As soon as the other guest had gone, 'S' offered her couch for the night so I wouldn't have to catch the last train home. Of course I accepted! Before long she mentioned the 'Masterful' episode again, and this time I responded.

"Do you like that then", I asked.

"Mmm yes" she replied.

The conversation started to become quite hot and hands started wandering. We were both quite drunk, but I was sensible enough to realise fucking your drunk boss might look very different in the cold light of day. I told 'S' that we should hold back until the morning and give ourselves a chance to consider the consequences. 'S' agreed and after a goodnight snog, we spent the night in her bed without further activity.

There was no discussion in the morning; we were at it like rabbits! 'S' said that she had wanted to get my cock in her mouth last night after feeling it through my trousers. She said she liked oral sex, and had not had a man since she kicked her husband out months before. We spent the morning fucking and talking about my 'Masterfulness' and it was clear she had little experience, but was desperate to engage in sub/Dom games.

As the following week was half term we agreed to meet up at college Monday morning to sort out some business, then back to her place for some fun and games. I had the start of a role play mapped out, but I worked it up into a full BDSM scenario to be started Monday afternoon. The opportunity to have an ongoing sub/Dom relationship was exciting and I resolved to take things slowly so I didn't run out of ideas too soon.

Monday morning came and we started to do some work, but it was obvious our minds weren't on it and by mid-morning we had sneaked into my office for some groping. 'S' opened my trousers and gave me a blow job while I fondled her tits. Eventually we left work and soon arrived at 'S's house.

 

I will not itemise the meeting here as I continue to use this role play, but in brief the session started with 'S' in a standing position, fully dressed, legs apart and head bowed. I informed her of my rules, the punishment for breaking them and the training I was going to put her through. I then started to inspect her body. By the time I reached her cunt she was so turned on she was literally dripping cunt juice onto the floor. We spent the afternoon playing out the scenario I had devised. She was instructed to demonstrate her oral skills on my fingers before I allowed her near my cock. I instructed her she was not to cum before I gave permission, then bent her over and fingered her cunt before fucking her from behind. Indiscretions invited a spanking , and I allowed her several minutes to look in the mirror at her rosy arse, which she loved. Eventually I said I would allow her to cum, so she used her vibrator on her clit while sucking my cock until I exploded.

"You may cum now" I told her, and almost immediately she began to shudder with a massive orgasm.

Subsequent meetings involved stretching 'S's pussy, rope bondage, clothes pegs on the nipples and cunt lips, and more toys - even fruit and vegetables. On one occasion I filled her cunt with strawberries before fucking them back out of her. She ate all the mashed fruit and cum off my cock with relish.

'S' had shown an early interest in anal sex, which her husband had refused to do. She even suggested that she'd like to try rimming which had become a favourite activity of mine. She was an anal virgin so I decided to hold this back for a special day when we had the maximum time available. This proved to be a massive mistake as that week there was a reorganisation of our offices which meant we lost privacy at work. Her husband then decided he could no longer have their ten year old son during the week so her home was unusable. We managed a few fumbles occasionally after that, but the momentum had been lost. In time 'S' moved to another college miles away, and the relationship came to a natural end.

The experience with 'S' proved invaluable; I had learned such a lot about submissiveness and domination, and I continue to use the lessons I learnt with other subs and cuckold couples to this day.

 

To be continued...