I've been very busy so not updating this.  The shall we say, limiting of my demands for daily sex have resulted in a changed relationship (for the better).  Thing is that he lives in my house, I'm the main bread winner and I support him.  At least this is what he sees.  He's been feeling loved but also used like I've set a requirement that he earns his free rent with sex like he is my prostitute.  Hmm that was a shock I don't want to be the bad guy.  

Well we did the abstinance for a while until I was teasing him in the lounge room the other night in the classic porno style flirting of leaning down to clean in a very short dress with a butt plug in.  Oh yeah he took over and fucked the shit out of me god damn this man is forgiven.  In the after glow we kissed like teenagers and to be clear he's not a kisser.  In our relationship I'm the vocal instigator and he's silent partner. 

After this we talked where he revealed the live in sex worker angle.  I apologised profusely.  I suggest one thing, how about for a month we just let desire take it's course have sex only when we want.  He warned me that he doesn't want a break up if we go weeks with no sex.  That was a worry.  But as you can see from the amount of time away from here we've been fucking like a honeymoon.  Jesus he fucked me with a dildo last night as he was still turned on but at his age after 3 orgasms that 4th hardon isn't cooperating.  Four times on a weeknight?  We're more than back baby.

Last thing then I'm going to go back to bed and take his cock again, he's confessed that he wants more cuddling and kissing and doesn't like me sucking his cock.  That's fair I don't like my cock sucked either.  But he asked can we kiss more and can he suck mine?  I didn't object as I don't want to discourage any of this desire.  So now, morning blow jobs are me getting fucked in the ass either in bed or the shower and often both.   If only we could go public it would make a hell of an OF page hahahaha Just kidding