Phil's parents are still with us, quite old but also all there.  They've known for a while that Phil and the wife (her name s Claire) are not together.  They swear they've known for decades that their son is gay (but we don't believe them).  They know he has another partner apart from Claire and that he's younger man.  We were invited to a BBQ with Phil's adult son (me too I don't want to sound flippant, this is a big moment).

Claire was there; now on the record I've had sex with her many times. I used to fuck her to keep her allowing Phil to be his true self.  Yeah I know that's fucked up but even though they had a sexless marriage it was sex that she wanted.  She's a larger lady and goddamn I love a BBW almost as much as an older gentleman.  There would be no sex today as Phil's parents were there.  Oh god I'm wearing daisy dukes (well almost).  I'd have worn a suit of something if I knew they were coming.  Staunch catholics I thought they stone the sodomite haha.

They were lovely, hands down not considering everything but lovely they were.  The Dad led the way saying they're too old to care about sexuality they see everyone happy even Claire doesn't look mad.  Was tense though.  Ice was broken by Phil's dad asking "so when you have sex who receives and who gives".  How do you answer this.  I was nervous.  He said he'd done his research nothing shocks him.  I said "well then in our relationship Phil is the giver always.  I am pretty much the wife".  He was happy, I was shocked.  He said do I dress like a woman.  I said yes but only at home with a purpose of sex as in I live in male clothes and put on a dress for sex (a lie but i didn't want a follow up of then you should dress up around us haha).  I was right as he said if it makes you comfortable then dress that way around us.  I thought nothing shocks this guy so said curtly I couldn't do that I'd need to keep pulling him into a bedroom and laughed nervously.  Crickets!!  then he laughed too.

What a day!

We didn't speak of sexuality again just work, sport, politics, music and those pesky teenagers (just kidding that's my wish haha)

I'm welcome back any time.

That night we didn't have sex, I loved that moment and didn't want to take away from it we slept as a couple feeling accepted.  Middle of the night though I took him in my mouth and when he woke I said "fucking pound me baby I'm too horny"  Acceptance is a hell of a turn on.