For me, the ideal relationship dynamic is a traditional one. And by that I don't mean what those 'modern feminist' extremists🤮 spout! The traditional husband is not some domineering tyrant and his wife a suppressed victim.
In the traditional relationship both complemented each other, brought their inherent strengths into the relationship and thus together built a stronger, better whole.

Every well-functioning ship has one captain, every efficient unit one leader. That leader is the man, the patriarch. Like every good leader in history he will listen to propositions and values advise but in the end he will decide, he will lead and because he inspires trust, his woman will follow.
She will offer her council freely and without hesitation or fear because she knows that there is always a deep-seated respect between them. And because of that she obeys and follows her man, knowing that she can trust his leadership.

That is why, in some way, I am of the opinion that the woman in a traditional relationship can be considered to be a bit selfish. This relationship dynamic puts an enormous stress on the man, professionally, physically, mentally and socially. He is the one to lead, to provide, to protect. The results of his decisions are purely his responsibility and he is solely accountable for them. The pressure to be the provider, or at the very least the primary provider, and the main protector are squarely on him. This is expected of him by society, his woman and he expects it of himself.

The traditional woman understands this. Not only that but she also deeply and truly values it. Her man takes on all this pressure, stress, sacrifices and expectations, willingly and for her. Therefor she understands that her role - her duty - is to make all efforts to lighten that load, to make her man's life more bearable, peaceful, relaxing and loving. She appreciates the risks he takes and the efforts he makes when he goes out into the world to provide for her and in return she does her best to provide him with a home and a relationship that he wishes to come back to after every hard day, where he knows he is valued, appreciated and loved. She is also frugal with the ressources he provides her with and asks his permission before she uses them.

He leads, she follows.
He decides, she obeys.
He provides, she nurtures.
He protects, she submits.
Both are loyal, faithful and want the best for eachother.

In my ideal relationship, my man will never cook or clean or do any domestic chores (unless he decides he wants to, of course).
He will come back to a home that is peaceful, clean, calm and loving. And to a wife that will great him with an honest and happy smile and who will give him a long hug or suck his cock right there in the hallway, depending on what he needs after a stressful day.
I will keep my body fit and healthy both to be more appealing to you and out of respect for you.
I will be dressed in the way you like best and always barefoot at home because it makes me feel vulnerable and submissive yet safe at the same time. I want to be there for you if you want to talk, I will listen, I will NEVER judge you for admitting that something is stressing you or worries you. You don't always have to be strong, with me you can let your guard down. I will sit quietly at your feet or lie in your lap if you need silence or leave you alone for a while if you need a moment of peace by yourself.
I will be happy if you enjoy time with your friends and your hobbies, with or without me. I will let you enjoy video games on your own or suck you off under the table if you want me to. I will cheer with you when you watch a sports game or grinningly wrap my lips around your hard dick while you watch it (and I'll do the same when you are on the phone, too😜).
I will be your footrest if you want to relax, your maid, waitress and chef. I will be your confidante, your secrets never to be revealed by me, your friend, your partner-in-crime, your wife.
And I'll be your lover, your servant, your slut, your dirty little whore and sexslave. I want to earn your trust to the point that you feel at ease and ready to share your deepest, dirtiest, most kinky fantasies with me and then I want to make them a reality.
I want you to take me and dominate me, keep me in bondage, leash me, gag me, choke me into submission, blindfold me body and mind, to use me for your pleasure because I know after you've made me your bitch you will hold me in your arms and make me feel safe.
You will keep me in chastity because my own orgasm don't matter, only yours do. My pleasure comes from serving and submitting to you.
I want you to call me dirty names because coming from you they are titles of endearment.
If you allow it I will wear tokens of your ownership. A collar, pieces of adult kinky jewelry, an ownership tattoo etc.
I will walk by your side but stand half a step behind you when you talk to or meet somebody. Deferring to you, yet attentive, observant, an asset ready to serve and support you and, if necessary, to protect.

I have my own mind and I am neither meek nor helpless or uneducated. I am your submissive. I can lead an will do so within the confines of a task you set for me. I can and will fight, but only ever for and never against you. I will offer my advice and voice my opinions, if possible also show potential avenues both to better yourself or our relationship, always respectful and with my best intentions.
I am capable to stand on my own two feet and be autonomous, making my own decisions and taking my own actions but I will do so within the limits you set for me, the permissions you give me and in the pursuit of the goals you define, to the best of my abilities and knowledge.

I am not perfect but I will strive towards that state. I am eager and willing to learn on how to serve you best, on how to best make your life and our relationship better. To do that, to learn, you will have to teach me.
There will be frictions and disagreements like in all relationships and I will try to convince you of my point of view. But I will always be respectful, reflecting the respect and trust you show me and once you have made your final decision I will obey and follow.

Because I know you have my best interests in mind. Because I know I can trust you.
Because I know that after you fucked your whore like your property that I am you will hold me in your arms and keep me safe and protected.

Because you are my loyal man and I am your loyal woman.