This entire journey of three or so years has been a real eye opener for both of us. We have grown closer together, and our sex life is wild and crazy. It's like we're both back at university and we can't keep our hands off each other. This lifestyle change to our sex lives has, conversely to what one may expect, really enhanced our own intimacy.

It has laso increased our own communications with each other and we talk far more frequently and openly about our shared experiences of her trysts with other men.

At the moment my wife is seeing two men regularly. By regularly I mean once maybe twice a month each. One is very experienced as a bull and has a bit of a edging fetish... which works great for all involved, especially me and the black guy who sleeps with her. The other is a younger black man. It's a convenient stable arrangement for all of us. The other two are divorced executives in the corporate world and are basically seeking an outlet for sexual tension as a result of not being married any more.

I have learned an enormous deal from my wife's experiences with both men. I have learned of things she likes and things she previously didn't know of. Recently I sat with her and we made a list of her biggest takeaways from this lifestyle, and in particular her learning about sex as an older more mature woman. It's like she is, for the first time, sexually blossoming and I am reaping all the rewards from this sexual awakening and these lessons she's learned. If your wife is into this lifestyle with you, perhaps you can share some of the things she's learned that has benefitted you.

So in no particular order here we go.

Eye contact

Early on my wife met a bull who wanted to take her from behind in the ytraditional "ass up face down" way. As she'd learned she did just that. Ass high, tummy pushed down, cheek to the bed. In yoga this is called the kitty stretch... I don't think yoga instructors realize how accurate this is but I digress. While taking her, the bull suddenly reached forward, grabbed my wife by the hairpulled her head up so she could see them fucking in the mirror. He forcefully told her 

Look me in the eyes while I'm fucking you

She obeyed, and he blew his load almost immediately.

Since then she's made a point of trying to make and retain eye contact with whomever is fucking her. Whether she's on top looking down, below looking up with her ankles round his shoulders, whether she's looking in the mirror or over her back... she always tries to get and then make eye contact. According to her this is sometimes difficult to do while a lovely cock is pounding your pussy to one quaking jellyfying orgasm after the other but she's learned that looking at a guy's eyes while hers display clear signs of the pleasure she's getting always makes them cum faster. 

She's also started to do it to me and I can definitely attest to the effectiveness of my the emotion and enjoyment in my wife's eyes as she looks straight into mine.

It certainly speeds up the arrival of your orgasm!

Getting taken from behind - ass up face down

When my wife initially started dating and had her first experiences with black men I had warned her that they liked "ass up face down" style. This we both learned was wrong. They liked legs up style the most.

 Eventually of own accord my wife told a black bull she wanted it "ass up face down". She does yoga so assuming the position of the stretching kitty or "downward dog" was easy for her. The bull loved the way she moved into position and he fucked her good and proper, bouncing his hips off her broad round booty with audible slaps, while delivering the occasional smack to the voluptuous cheeks. She told me she loved being spanked while doing this.

In her growth in sexual maturity she learned to enjoy all facets of sex. Although married sex can be very enjoyable, her new adventures have also made her more confident to ask for what she wants.

She says that being told to go "ass up face down" awakens her inner slut. Nothing makes her feel more slutty, dirty and whorish and a true bad girl slutwife than putting her face down on a bed, pushing her tummy down whilst at the same time pushing her booty high up, to present her pussy, waxed and dripping wet, open and swollenin anticipation for her bull's cock to take.

And few things awaken her feelings of being anaughty slutty girl as being taken in this fashion, a long thick black cock stretching her pussy lips, reaching deep into her while a man's hips slap rhythmically against her booty. In that position she feels her naughty girl slut needs to be spanked to round off the experience.

I love having her come home, having watched a few short snatches of video snaps, and ripping her clothes off, her still smelling of another man's sweat and cologne and seeing his palm print contrasting red on her pale booty cheeks.

I have also learned to love the new "ass up face down" as she now likes for me to take her this way more often and it adds a new dynamic to our love making.

 The cock grab - taking what she wants

The first time my wife was with another guy, it was his first time too after his divorce. The two of them were extremely nervous and it ended up with her not being able to relax enough for him to penetrate whilse he lost his erection out of his own nervousness. This happened even though both had a great time necking and turning each other on. They just couldn't. on tha occasion, take the next step.

 The two agreed to meet again just four days later. This time though there was no holding back by either. The guy wore a set of grey sweats when she got to his house with no underwear underneath so his cock was visible imprinted against the material of the sweats. 

After some morning pleasantries and the obligatory cup of coffee shared the two of them got to business. One of the things my wife consciously told herself to do was to go for that cock. So while they were making out, still dressed, he had her top off and started to passionately kiss her breasts (I would too, they are lovely)  and suck her nipples, she snaked a hand downwards, into hissweats and curled her hand around his cock. She was so calculated that she used her left hand to do it so she could feel her wedding ring against the hard flesh of his cock. 

When she touched it, felt it, felt it against our wedding ring, knowing I was watching her, something clicked and in her own mind and according to her she just felt

I want this thing inside my pussy

On this occasion her and her lover spent the morning together basically in his bedroom trying to break his bed, knock holes in his walls and she tried to raise he ceiling with hr noisy enjoyment. On this occasion the cock slipped between her wet pussy lips with ease and she loved the warm full feeling it gave her.

 Since then, she has made a point of (in her words) making his cock mine before she goes all the way. She always goes for the cock grab and most of the time ends up guiding it into her. She makes a point of using her left hand so that her wedding ring is curled around the cock going into her so she can assure herself I am okay with what is happening even though I am not there.

For my part, as you see from my galleries, watching my wife's ring finger, adorned with our wedding ring, curl around some other man's cock to guide it towards her dripping bare open pussy makes me absolutely wild for her. It's become something of a thing between us. A secret signal that she's having fun, that she knows I am okay with it (more than okay!) and he is free to enjoy it.

Smiling and laughing

I first noticed this a few weeks ago. My wife had sent me a video of her and the black bull having sex with her on top. Now as an aside my wife is an expert cock rider. It's literally her favorite position. On top she can make herself cum repeatedly internally and by rubbing her clit against her man. She was busily hunting an orgasm, and was close. The guy was filming her with his camera phone from his chest and she was visibly smiling into the camera.

I asked her about it.

She told me that in this lifestyle she'd learned that sex was something for her to enjoy. I extracted enjoyment from watching her get fucked by other guys. At first she'd thought about it as asomething of a fulfilment of my fantasy so she'd enjoyed it because I enjoyed it. Gradually this changed to her enjoying it. Enjoying the unbridled, unfettered sensual eriticism of just having sex for pure hedonistic personal pleasure with no strings attached.

When she made this shift from doing it for me, to doing for us to fiinally doing it for herself, realising what she was doing was actually fun for her, she surrendered herself to the enjoyment. She then found that often during sexual encounters, she'd laugh, giggle and smile lots at the men she was having sex with. She says it also gives them confidence when they see her smiling and enjoying their prowess.

Since then I have made a point of checking when she brings home a video and sure enough, I've heard giggles, some laughter and always somewhere there is a smile. And there is always a secret naughty smile for the camera... and that one... is for me and I love seeing my wife have fun!