BBC- BIG BLACK COCK  The minimum requirement to be considered a BBC is eight inches and a girth of 6.5. However with a girth of 8 inches then a 5'' lenghth would still be considered BBC.

BBC LIFESTYLE- In general a couple where the husband supports his wife(or partner) in enjoying BBC. Usually in the home or a hotel and often with him watching. However she is usually at liberty to enjoy a  spontaneous BBC encounter without him being present.  Although there are some variations the BBC Lifestyle is not about cuckolding or humiliation. A woman and partner  enjoy BBC as a recreational pleasure.

BBC ONLY- Where the wife has chosen to reserve herself sexually, at least as far as penetration goes,  for Big Black Cock. This is less about denial than out of respect for her husband who simply cannot compete. She will usually continue to satisy her husband by hand or mouth and often while talking about BBC.

BBC NIGHT -The night  of the week chosen by couples to invite a BBC into their home or meet at a hotel. NOTHING gets in the way of a woman's  BBC Night.

BBC FRIENDLY FIRM/OFFICE  -A company that makes allowances and exceptions for female employees in the Lifestyle. They  will be allowed to have extended lunch hours or leave early  to meet with a BBC. Often  the office manger will be a QoS and will emply a couple  of whitebois who will be happy to stay late and cover any workload.

BBC FRIENDLY HOTEL- A hotel that will give a discount to any woman displaying her QoS. Some reserve whole floors for interracial encounters.

BLACKTIZED- The first time a woman has intercourse with  a BBC. The legal age in America to be Blacktized is 18 and this was introduced to protect a young woman's body. Many teenagers will actually get Blacktized on or just after their 18th, and with the full support of their parents and boyfriend. 

DARKSIDE- AN ISLAND RESORT IN THE CARIBBEAN DEVISED AND BUILT BY A BILLIONAIRE COUPLE WHO ENJOYED THE LIFESTYLE IN THE SEVENTIES. THE RESORT IS STAFFED ALMOST ENTIRELY BY 'THE HOSTS', ALL BBC, WHO ARE AVAILABLE ON DEMAND TO PLEASURE FEMALE GUESTS. DARKSIDE IS A PLATINUM CLASS RESORT WITH FIVE STAR ACCOMADATION AND CUISINE BUT THE GUEST ARE HERE FOR SEX.

FACILITATOR- A man, usually over fifty who is looking to pay for a Queen of Spades' Lifestyle. He will book the hotel, pay both her and the BBC's expenses, her BBC apparel etc. He has no interest in sex with the QoS. Usually, but not always, just wants to be present, perhaps record the encounters for his own use. He will often have many BBC contacts who  he can inroduce the QoS to.