I Dont Know how or what the fuck a Blog is nor do i Care this is the only place i've been able to find a semi- annonamis  not questionare nor is  it a severey more like an Inquiry into others peoples opinions or Perspectives.......
Now Me Personal i Dont Recognize as a Victim Because atr a very early age and as a young male my curiousity never seemed too be of an at any point unwilling Participation....... I Had in segments before losing my virginity lets say opportunities that i had the choice to turn away from or evn refuse but My Question IS This : having never been with a partner [thats never said they werent abused at some pont in thier Development ] not just be open with me about but now thinking back in some small way or another they request something from the normally negative circumstances and ask for a lets say "participation in"!
No lie its like every other women i find some state abviously its not something they enjoy but rather they need assistance with  for them to even be able to climax ..........and others making it seem like their being no choice in the matter that being the most detrimental aspect of your own personal revelation of your own desires or attractions that it being something that they were almost robbed of if not worse to were 'Regrettably the first few instances i was asked it seemed in a way as if they were  wanting me to reinact it to be able to get any enjoyment from any kind of intamccey and to be Honest that was awlways somethig that bothers me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Not Only Is Consent First And ForeMost but Even More so  allowing someone  access but even just information to your sexual identity is nto a smiliar but different Level world shattering at different extents of levels and its being one thin if its made to seem like it just being discovered at a horerible experience they want you to rease the damage and almost rediscover themselves if not their desires onsome opsitive levek and in that way i dont mind but me thinking more and more over the examples if this circumstance ive either been asked informed or involved with it only be something i be aggreeable with in it being some aspect a way for themm to be impowered or recoreerved from ..... but again my question is How many of you out their either do thigs for your partner due to somethingajacent to this situation if not feel differently it could or shouldif not ifg their are any reason to decline or stray away from those indivifduals that go about slef discovery of self healing from trauma of suvch a nature???????????
also how many of you out there have a Kinnk  your not sure because of why or where from did this happen to be something to learn about yoursellf?