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Giving great blowjobs
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Guys love getting head, so any blowjob's better than none, but really being good at it takes practice.
It's also not super easy because a lot of the things that make a guy's dick feel the best are a bit embarrassing to do. That was a barrier for me at first. This is tangential, but growing up Latina in a Roman Catholic household, I got pretty used to feeling ashamed of even wanting to do anything sexual, but that's a different blog post or twelve.
You have to go deep, and that's scary. You want hot rivers of saliva flowing down his cock and pooling on the bed or the floor, you want to make lots of noise, and you have to look in his eyes, and all of these are nerve-wracking things if you're not used to them.
One of the most important things about giving fantastic head is learning how to deepthroat. A throat may as well be designed to make a cock feel good, squeezing and massaging and heating it up, vibrating with any noise you make. I don't have a gag reflex (fairly common), so I didn't need any training, but you'll have to practice poking the back of your throat with things if you do have one.
When you're deepthroating, you'll let out loads of saliva, which is excellent for obvious reasons. You have to breathe through your nose, but if he's particularly big, you won't be able to do this when he's deep in your throat, so breathe when you're pulling back, then take him all the way back in again.
You can learn to contract your throat muscles while he's in you, and what I like to do is hold him there for as long as I can and do that, before taking him all the way back out and going all the way back down again. Remember to stick out your tongue so it slides along the bottom of his cock with every stroke.
If he's uncut, be careful with the edge of the glans, because that's pretty sensitive on uncut guys. Use your tongue to swirl around the head when you come up for air. Alternate your techniques to give him a break and make it last longer; lick the whole length, suck his balls, massage the shaft with your lips, but always go back to taking him deep.
If you're very comfortable deepthroating, and if you're like me and prefer your hands tied behind your back while you're doing it, eventually you can start letting him fuck your face at his own pace, which is really exciting for women who're into that.
When he cums, take it deep one last time. Guys adore cumming inside their girl's throat. It's the best finish he can ask for. Clean him up with your tongue after it's over. You could blow him for a bit longer as long as he isn't too sensitive.
Finally, communicate. After you suck him, ask him which things you did he liked best. I love giving head, and a lot of women do, but at the end of the day, you're doing it to make him feel good. Find out what your man likes, and give it to him.
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Posted on : Feb 4, 2024
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Commented on Feb 4, 2024
These are all very good suggestions! As a cocksucker with a cock I have some insight on this.
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Commented on Feb 4, 2024
A well licked dick and a good suction on the tip can do more than deep throat. Use everything you’ve got and be more messy and creative
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Commented on Feb 4, 2024
A well licked dick and a good suction on the tip can do more than deep throat. Use everything you’ve got and be more messy and creative
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Commented on Feb 4, 2024
Thank you .
I have had so few good BJs because women never took the time to learn how to do it right .
They think " Just stick it in my mouth and suck on it " . No ladies .
How would you like it if i just ate you like an ice cream or a lollipop ? Not very pleasant is it .
Oral sex takes skill and we need to practice those skills . Don't assume that you are great just because your partner came ,guys will cum in a vacuum hose or a sock . Are you a vacuum hose or a sock ? I hope you have a higher opinion of yourself than that .
Thank you AmeKat2 ,and thanks to all the ladies who take their time to learn how to suck a dick properly
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