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Crossdressing
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Any serious good tips from the wonderful and gorgeous Trans / CD community here on crossdressing basics? I've been "dressing" for a while (primarily lingerie, occasionally fooled around with wigs, even tried dresses) but I can't pass to save my life. Things I'm trying to deal with include:
- The Closet: I'm pretty closeted about my gender expression. Seemingly everything about me screams "GUY" lol, but I defintiely have this feminine side that wants to get out and be sexy and fun!! Wife knows I'm bi and has accepted family friends who are transitioning, but... it's different when YOU are the one affected. Not sure if I'll be accepted, laughed out of the bedroom... or worse.
- Weight: Not sure if I should say I'm a big girl or big boy, that's another blog post for another day. Let's go with "big human". Over 6 ft / 1.8m and pushing 300lbs / 136kg. I'm adjusting diet and already down a little despite the holiday food. Already noticing some differences in my everyday clothes.
- Makeup: Spent 99.999% of my life as "guy" so I really know jack shit about it. Sure I've watched Youtube videos and tutorials but they can only get me so far. I may just have to bite the bullet and go into a makeup shop,but that comes with its own issues, haha.
- Hair: I have jet black hair. My beard is a fucking bitch. It doesn't go away. Even with the freshest razor blades, shaving feels useless. Regardless of gender expression, I want to rip every fucking hair follicle out of my face.
- Style: See above, living as a "dude", no style brain whatsoever. Any tips here would be appreciated.
I know why we're all here... and no I'm not ready to post images of myself. Yet. Maybe if I actually look decent (in my mind) I'll post something tantalizing for you wonderful folks to drool over. Not gonna lie, kinda turned on by the idea that someone out there would get off to pictures of me, haha. Also not sure how far I'm taking this whole thing, if it's a just at home thing or actual factual transition... I have a lot to process in '24.
So any pointers in the right direction would be greatly appreciated! Many thanks in advance to all the sexy folks out there reading this, and additional thanks for any input.
Happy New Year everyone!!
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Posted on : Dec 29, 2023
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Commented on Dec 29, 2023
Not everybody needs to pass. I'm non-binary and wearing some fabulous lingerie while having a full beard is not an issue. Passing was more important when our community had less visibility but it's still important now for those people that want to pass.
it sounds like you're the latter category!
There are plenty of clothing options for larger girls. You'll probably benefit from a proportionate set of boobs.
Electrolysis is an option some people go to for on the facial hair. Hormones also gradually stop male pattern hair.
Where is your weight? Testosterone usually puts weight on the front of the abdomen, whereas oestrogen usually puts in on bum, hips, thighs.
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