This may be last years article, and a follow-up may come, but I think it would be fun to post it here aswell. have fun reading ;) 

I actually thought of writing this for some time now, this quazi-scientiffic testimonial and reflection about chastity. Now, I finally had some time to reflect, gather and compare info and experimentation from personal experience about the topic. More specifically, the effects it has on the mind and body of a sissy while wearing a chastity cage. Something what I thought would be a fun kink to have, turned out to be a sexy deep rabbit hole I decided to dive in a bit. So let’s start:

I will focus only on chastity devices and cages that are meant to encase a penis (or a clitty if you are a sissy 😉), for I do not know much or care about female chastity belts. So a chastity cage is a device that when worn, prevents erections and is usually equipped with a lock. So the person wearing the cage does not necessarily have access to unlocking said cage. Usually in a setting of BDSM play, the submissive is the one who usually wears one. But it has become very popular in the sissy/feminization comunity. And I can now see why, as I have tasted both sides of the kinky coin and can clearly say that there is MUCH more to the cages than just preventing erections.

I have experimented with chastity cages for almost 5-6 years, with a shaky beginning but ultimately found the right ones that fit me and my style. I was always my own keymaster, meaning that I had access to the key of my cages for the most part. In the beginning is was mostly for fun, and tried to imitate what I saw in some sissy and feminizations videos and hypnos, but what made me try harder and made me very curious was something called a “Sissygasm”. An orgasm made solely by anal stimulation (and prostate stimulation) and wearing a chastity cage, and cum drips or spurts out of the cage. That was unreal at the time and it blew my mind, and I could not get enough of it and wanted to try my best to try and achieve that myself… and then started the fun, long road of chastity experimentation.

Basically, for normal people, a chastity cage would just be an erection preventing device that can sometimes be uncomfortable. A real man would just laugh it off, and would probably by sheer will and brute force his was out of the cage just by getting a diamond erection. Proving that nothing can contain his manhood. For people with an already existing underlining submissive nature to them, or sissies or feminized folk, the cage does a lot more, so let’s name a few of them.

For sissies, Chastity should not be considered a punishment. It is a helpful tool to help bring out more submissiveness and femininity the longer you wear it. So I would like to say “Lock the masculine to unleash the feminine”. Out of sight, out of mind. So, from personal experience, I really recommend that sissies wearing a cage stop thinking about their locked cocks, and thinking about their release or orgasm… that is the wrong mentality. That is still thinking like a man. Forget about the orgasms and your cock… just focus on being more femme, pretty and submissive, and you will start to receive pleasures you never thought would be possible.

A side note about orgasm. I will differentiate 3 of them. 1. The Regular manly penile orgasm, the one where cum shoots out of the cock by penis stimulation, and has a refractory period. Sissies should avoid this kind of orgasm as much as possible, as after the orgasm, the horny goes away and “post nut clarity” kicks in. And the sissy loses interest in continuing their sissy journey and feminization (for a while). Then there is the 2. Anal orgasm. A very intense orgasm by anal stimulation, that slowly builds up, and get body shaking pleasurable spasms and contractions. The best part of it is, that there is no refractory period, and the horny does not go away. So it can just keep cumming and cumming, until exhaustion. The downside is that it needs to be acquired and trained. Nobody starts out with their ass feeling good when penetrated. And finally 3. Is the mythical Sissygasm. The combination of anal stimulation combined with shooting cum, without touching the penis. That would really mark for me a milestone in my sissy journey. And I want to achieve that fair and square, by a lot of hornyness and practice. I have seen a lot of videos where sissies imitate a sissygasm by jerking off to the edge, and do the anal stimulation to cross the edge. In my eyes, that is cheating because it did involve a certain amount of penis stimulation, So What I aim for is the “True” sissygasm by anal stimulation only.

Now, back on topic, Sissies should wear chastity to not focus on their dicks. When the needless little prick is locked up, you will notice that all of a sudden, you will want to keep yourself occupied with anything, just not to think about having that thing on you. And sissies adapt very quickly, within just a few days, at most parts of the day, I have not even noticed that I am wearing a cage, it just felt very natural, but I am getting ahead of myself, let me fill you gals in on what to expect if you decide to wear a chastity cage. And not for just a fun evening or play session, but for longer than a day.

Let’s assume you went through the trouble of doing your own research on what cage best suits you and are pretty certain that it is the right one for you. Even with choosing a comfortable cage, your body has not yet adjusted to having something down there, and it may actually be uncomfortable when you try to get an erection. Just wait it out and continue what you were doing. The first hurdle in such a plan is to survive the first 1-3 days… as it can be noticeable uncomfortable trying to sleep with the cage on. As mentioned, your body has yet to adapt to the new addition to your life. But do not worry… only the first couple of nights are the worst, and after that new adventures await.

The uncomfortable feeling will appear less and less, and you will try to get less and less erection attempts, but do not worry, now comes the magical part. Because you have locked up the cause of your stupid manly behaviour and are slowly realising that you are on a sexy journey, now new thoughts and feelings will start to creep in now that you do not have that pesky thing getting in the way. I kinda underplayed it in the beginning, but the true transformation is actually being done in your head, but we had to put the little pecker in its place for your new sexy persona to flourish. As mentioned before “lock the masculine to unleash the feminine”. And nowhere does that come into play than in your mind. You will notice approximately about 3 days in that you look at the world a bit differently. As if that you are kinda seeing where everything is and where you belong in this crazy world. And you start to get “funny” feelings when you notice things you did not notice before. Or see things that would usually give you an erection, like tits, ass and legs, now you are reminded that “no,no, it’s not for you”, or ironically, will feel aroused by looking at female clothes and lingerie and shoes, imagining yourself wearing them. Overall, you are starting to “feel” more feminine and submissive. You may act around your family and friends that you are still manly as ever, but then you realize something interesting. That it is literally an “act”. You know what you are and what you desire. You just needed a little push in the right direction. And soon enough, instead of hardcore straight porn, you would rather browse online for women’s clothes and shoes.

After about day 5 something interesting started to happen to me. Probably because I was horny as hell, but also felt sooo very femme, I woke up with involuntary feminine moans, rather than the usual stoic silence. My mind has altered a bit that now I wake up from bed how a sexy woman would purr to her man to come greet her. It came as a slight shock to me, but made me feel sexy and hot as hell. When I was aware of what noises I was making, I did not attempt to stop further occurrences and would just go with the flow. Further pushing me down the road of feminization. Not to mention I started paying close attention to how I look, feel and smell, so I shaved regularly my whole body, especially the legs, and used a more feminine shower gel to complete the feeling, and sink deeper. Not even thinking that I have a cage between my legs, and only remove it during showers for clean-up. I spend a bit more time grooming myself to be more “pretty”. “What for?” I asked myself. The answer was obvious. I was adapting to a new sexual role. The receptive role. My mind was preparing my body to get pleasure by getting sexually dominated and penetrated. Do not be afraid. As these latent feelings and thoughts are not new. They were there the whole time. They just needed the right environment and tools to let it out.

The next accidental discovery was that I became aware of how I walked. A bit of a wiggle of the hips. While wearing my normal footwear. It became a bit of fun, and when I thought nobody was looking and whenever I can play it out, I would walk with a hip wiggle, and every step felt “good” mentally, and by swaying my hips, I also felt a certain bodily pleasure. With each step came with it a pleasurable little tremble. More located in the core around the pelvis, that shivered when I acted out my slowly budding “true” self.

At around day 7, another magical level-up. I noticed that my whole body was super sensitive. Touching almost any part of my body (besides the locked part) would feel kinda good. It is naturally and logical that when the former primary erogenous zone has become inaccessible, the body then tries to compensate and redistribute the erogenous zone across the body. When the feeling was new, I kinda had to get used to it, but I was confused as how was this possible, and enjoyed where this was going. My nipples became very sensitive, as before I did not feel anything through them, but now they felt very erotic, and playing with them was a viable source of pleasure. Not to mention, my hips and my ass were also very sensitive, and I could not stop myself from grabbing my ass and spreading it, which also caused serious pleasure. And with such pleasure, came the inevitable.

Chastity tears – the leaking of a caged cock that shows arousal. And indeed I was very much aroused. The first time this happened to me, it was at first unnoticed, until I felt something wet down there. I out of curiosity had to see it for myself, and lo and behold, precum was leaking out of my cage. Another sexy milestone, one that when first achieved, if happened more and more often. As if slowly transforming my body to its new reality. So much so that even when a long chastity session ends, I would still leak of excitement even without a cage.

The first week in chastity, if you decide to have some fun with your ass, such experiences would, most likely than not, end in frustration. If you did not train your ass, and not developed a taste for anal orgasms, masturbating in this way to try to cum from your locked dick would be a futile effort. Oh, how many times was I so stupid, thinking that fucking my ass I would force a sissygasm, because I wanted one, and I just ended up being frustrated, or worse, decided to end my chastity session by unlocking my cock and rubbing one out. And utterly stupid decision. Because then everything went back to square one.

So here is a bit of advice to take to heart: If you want to go for the long haul and wear chastity a bit longer, and want to anally stimulate for pleasure, do NOT try to force any kind of orgasm!!! Forget your cock, like it is not there. Do not think that because you want to, it will happen. No! instead, take it like a sissy would. Be glad you can have any kind of pleasure, and just let yourself enjoy the moment. Feel yourself being fucked. Feel the penetration, feel the gasps fleeing your breath. Do not expect anything. Just ride the pleasure for what it is. Be the receptive little slut that has been inside you all this time, and let her out. Let her have the fun she wanted. And before you know it, some new sensations will invite themselves in your sexlife and it will be a fun surprise when it first happens.

After about a week in chastity, I would say your body is starting to accommodate itself and it will also show its first signs of “hunger”. More specifically, hunger for cock. You will leak occasionally. And your ass, what was before some occasional itching of the anal opening, now became a subtle craving. Also feels more inviting and loose. During this time, I occasionally would wear a buttplug, at home/work, doesn’t matter. Something to occupy my hungry hole when I am not available to go full on fuck mode on my ass. So I put a plug in, and suckle on it, like a pacifier for my ass. The next pleasant surprise came when one day at work, I had a cage and buttplug on with panties, and while working on the computer and suckling/doing kiegels with my ass, I suddenly felt a warm wetness in my panties. I rushed to the WC to see what the hell it was, and saw that I had leaked quite amount of cum from the cage just by having my ass stuffed with a plug at work. How erotic!! And in front of a couple of colleagues! It had been like a week and a half since my last orgasm, so I guess it was a build-up of cum in me, and some nice prostate stimulation was needed. I was happy the rest of the day knowing that this could happen pretty much anytime while playing with my ass, and that is the idea!

After the second week of chastity, my mind was pretty much cock crazy. I looked at cocks in porn differently and noticed looking in public at peoples crotches. I got so used to my cage, that I was really starting to enjoy my time in it, and more and more appropriate the role of a submissive and receptive sexual creature, that is horny all the time. Even thoughts of sucking someone’s cock made me leak quite a bit. Once, I was in the right mind set and so horny, I practiced sucking on a dildo, all dolled up with some hot porn in the background. After sucking on my dildo, I could feel streams of cum leaking out of me. And I did not care, I continued to suck on it like it was the tastiest of all the treats, and I let the remnants of my masculinity just drip away. Of course, what followed was a nice pounding session, and most of the pent up cum was leaked out in the beginning, so all I was left was one of the most intense anal sessions I had with my toys. I drowned myself in pleasure and pleasurable spasms, what became the norm for me when deciding to indulge and satiate some of my arousal. At this point, I was not at all tempted to remove the cage during these sessions, since I knew how lovely these can be. Even after a good assfucking, and feeling dead tired, I still had at least some part of me hornier. So I could easily just pull up my panties, continue to do some work or chores, and easily afterwards, stuff my ass again, this time my ass being slightly more sensitive from the previous session.

At about the third week, I really noticed some changes in my mannerisms. Not that they appeared then, but I just noticed them consciously. As I was gesticulating more with more playful hand gestures, more curved and leg resting poses, was really trying my best to hide it in front of most people. As it became a “normal” for me. Thinking more about it, I then realised that almost every such sensual, playful, or what I thought as “sexy” mannerisms were giving me little pleasure surges throughout my body. Probably as a form of practice, compensation and validation to what I was becoming. A cock hungry slut. Even while doing the most mundane or normal things, the thought of naughty things was always there. Keeping me company. Always a little bit horny. And sometimes a lot horny. Best I could describe it as being in a sense “drunk” by arousal. I would probably not make the most rational choices, so I had to try extra hard to act as much a normal person would. But sometimes reality and its problems come along, and motivates you to be at least for this short period as “normal” as can be. Then afterwards, back to being a slut.

It goes without saying that the longer you are in chastity, the more cum you have in you. And the more cum you have in you, it is easier to fuck it out of you. As mentioned before, do not attempt to purposefully think about fucking the cum out of you. Just fuck your ass, and it will happen naturally. The cum will be so pent up, and the prostate so sensitive and ready to burst, that even the slightest insertion of your favourite anal toy, scraping your anal walls, would drive you crazy, give intense pleasure, and cause leaking. Now imagine a constant rhythmic fucking what would cause it to do. But do not use the prostate as your “cum” button. But more of a pleasure spot to rub against and add to the overall bodily joy. Remember: cumming from your cage is a bonus… not the goal. The goal is to ride the waves of carnal pleasure and arrive in heaven as a sexy, cock hungry slut.

My personal record was 2 months in constant chastity, only removing it for cleaning and hygiene. It was a Locktober and the next month, because is felt so gooood, that I had to extend the fun a bit more. And oh boy, it sure was fun! By the end of it, I was so full of lust and a horny mess, that if I had horny neighbours I would just invite them to fuck my brains out.

 It satiated my curious kinky mind, and I fully support anyone who wishes to dabble with sissyfication or feminization to try chastity. It is not mandatory, but sure as hell is it recommended. As the fast-track to being a slut.

So? What do you guys think of my little experience? I would like to hear from you if you had similar experiences and “compare notes” 😉.  And I hope that this answers some of the questions to you horny guys as to why I wear a cage.

Thank you for reading,

Kiss, Dora