The stigma surrounding men using sex toys is slowly dispersing, and that is a big reason why there are now so many different male-based adult toys, devices and paraphernalia designed to offer male pleasure available to buy. Many more men are beginning to realise there is nothing wrong with using sex toys for the exploration and enjoyment of intimacy.

However, whether you’re new to male masturbators or other sex toys for men or an experienced user, it is important to understand how to use them safely and responsibly. We will take you through some tips that will help you to use your male masturbator safely and responsibly.

The number one priority is to ensure the male masturbator you’re using is constructed using body-safe materials. To ensure this, only use prominent brands such as GetFleshy.com, known for using the best materials in terms of safety and realistic sensations. Medical-grade silicone and thermoplastic elastomer (TPE) are common materials used for the best male masturbators. Those materials minimise the risk of irritation and allergic reactions.

If you’re not the type to clean up after yourself, there’s a reason you’re relying on male sex toys to provide a release. Besides, keeping your male masturbator is not only good for hygiene but also good for the longevity of the device. Most of the best male sex toys are easy to clean, so it should not take too long after each use. You can usually remove the sleeves and clean them well within minutes.

Like when having actual sex or masturbating, lubrication can help to reduce friction, enhance comfort, and minimise the chances of irritation. Make sure you choose a lubrication that is okay to use on the material of your masturbator. For instance, many oil-based lubricants could cause damage to some of the materials used to make male sex toys.

While many male masturbators create an experience close to what you get when having sex, none will give you an experience as good as the real thing. They can become a great substitute that can enhance pleasure, while they can become a great tool for self-exploration. For the best experience and, more importantly, a human connection that is impossible with a plastic device, look for a compatible person to partner with you as you explore the wonders of sex.

Make sure you do not overuse the device. Being to frequent or too aggressive with sex toys can lead to discomfprt. Not on this, these points coil also result in physical discomfort or desensitisation. If you feel your body is telling you ae overusing the device, then take a break. This will stop any physical and psychological negatvitve results. In the end, balance is the key. Think of like eating a McDonalds. It is great, but if you eat it a greasy burger everyday, then you gain wait and your body starts fatigue. This is also a sign of your body giving you signs of overindulgence.

There is a stigma to using male sex toys and some people may forget that gossip is rife in human society. Therefore, if your aim is privacy and discretion, there are few ways you can ensure you keep your male sex toy useage discreat. Firstly, storage in case you live in  place with other who may discover the device, which you may find embarrassing. The same applies to female sex toys, so the aim for discretion is only a natural human instinct.

Purchasing or receiving deliveries, such as opting for plain packaging and secure, discreet shipping options will ensure your package arrives by post. Again, you may live with others and so if you do not want others to know you are using a male sex toy, then use a company that gurantees discrete delivery through proper packaging and labelling. The other option is to head to an area where sex shops are common. Take a rucsac with you, choose your device, and safely store it in your bag. Most of these shops will give you a black carrier bag to hide the toy.

Awareness of Emotional Health

Address the emotional aspects of using male masturbators. It's important that you  understand that while these devices can provide physical pleasure, they don't fulfill emotional or relational needs. However, we also understand that in the current bust work world there is often no time for a relationship, and maybe escort services are not your thing. The point here is that sex toys are tools for physical exploration and pleasure, but they are not substitutes for emotional intimacy and human connection. You may already have interaractions at work that enough of a relationship to keep your social skills with the same or opposite sex well tuned.

However, as silly as this might soun, if this is not the case, make sure you attend social activities such as gyms or sports to ensure you are still building relationships while you are unable to commit to a long-term relationship.

There is no doubt that using male sex toys is nowhere near as taboo as it once was. While you shouldn't go screaming from the rooftops about the sex toys you use, you should never feel ashamed of it. Just make sure you take heed of our advice above so that you can enjoy a safe and responsible experience when using a male masturbator to help bring you to a climax when the need arises.

If you are self aware about using sex toys, then there’s plenty of advice on this page covering discrete delivery, purchase and storage. Also, take heed of overusage. The idea is to have fun, not to turn the fun into a dilemma that could either physically or emotionally affect you.

One last thing. Understand and justify why you need to use male sex toys. It could be you don’t like the idea of escort services or the price, and you also have no time for a relationship, even friends with benefits. In this case, make sex toys are great way to relax and get the correct amount of stimulation a man naturally needs.