It's in your best interest to make sure your hsuband is never satisfied. The more you reject him the more he will want to prove himself to you, and do things for you, and the better you life is.

 For example I used to do all the cooking in the house which I guess was fair since I only work part time at a hotel, and my husband has his own business working full time. I told my husband one night in bed I love him more than ever, but I did not see him in a sexual way anymore. I then point out how sexy I find men cooking on TV, and guess what he does, he starts cooking meals for the family every night. It's that easy if you do it right.

 It's important to give your husband some reward if he pleases you. I let him masturbate next to me in the bed at night, and that seems to keep him more than happy. I do not touch him, or say anything to him, he just likes knowing I am there while he does it.

 My husband never used to offer to rub my feet after work, or at night, but ever since the no sex thing, he wants to touch me anyway he can, so he now offers to do it for me, it seems to get him arroused. He goes to the bathroom after he has been doing it for a while, he thinks I do not know what he is doing in there.