I admit that I want to have a sexual affair especially with an Asian woman.  I checked out a few dating sites to see if I could hook up with a sexy Asian woman for some NSA fun.  Maybe more like a FWB.  Let's start off with that theses dating sites are not just for finding a new mate.  A lot of times it is to have some fun and a few orgasms.  And I am willing to wager that at least 25% of those regestreing on the sites are already married or in a relationship are looking for a little side action.Both men and women

I am not going to go into the morality of cheating and having an affair.  Heck, I've been in a few affairs myself over the years so who am I to lecture on the morality of having more sex on the side.  These dating site could fill the bill of getting a lover or can they?  I tried a few and it cost me a few dollars.  Here is what I have found out

i-flirt:

First place I looked at was: i-flirt. In order to chat with any of the girls there you had to buy virtual coins. Each time you press enter of your keyboard it costs you 50 coins.  It does not take long for you yo use up those coins.  But your are not chatting to a live person, no sir.  You are chatting with a chat-bot programmed to string you along so you can buy more coins. How can you tell it is a chat-bot?  Easy, I found a woman near me.  I happen to know the area real good and there is a famous landmark there that everyone knows by name a nick name.  The 'woman' had no clue where the landmark was or the name of it.  No matter what time it is, when you go to the site you will find that 'woman' on-line all the time.  I left my screen up and when I went to the bathroom at 3AM, she was still online and chated with me.  Also it never directly answers your question and it had no clue on current events.  The grammer was pathetic.  At one point the 'woman' said she wants me to fuck her brains out.  Not for nothing but I seriously doubt a real live woman would say that to a total stranger. There is a no refund policy in place and they show up on your credit car statement, so much for being discreet.

Plenty-Of-Fish:

Next I tried Planty-Of-Fish.  I was kicked off the site while I was filling out the long registration form.  I tried to re-log in but couldn't  So I reset the password and that didn't work.  No matter what I did, I wan unable to log into POF.  So in short POF is a POS.

Lucky Date:

Next is Lucky Date.  I was able to log in and the site is filled with models.  Every photo there was professionally done of high end models.  No one looked like you normal everyday woman who wants to hookup.  You can chat with these for maybe 8 messages then you have to pay.  The search engine is pathetic and searches by country only.  You cannot drill down your search to a particular area.  I was able to connect to someone who is from the NYC area and I asked her how long as she lived in an area of NYC by it's common name.  She had no clue as to what I was talking about.  If you lived in the city, you knew the name within 10 minutes of living there.  Yep another Chatbot.

One-Night-Stand

An interesting site.  The woman that can post photos of themselves totally naked if they want.  It is just the main photo has to be non-nude.  I saw an Asian woman there that I would not mind going to bed with and have a real good time with.  The search engine needs work for you cannot drill down your search to a particular area but you can get within 20 miles.  But like most of these dating sites, in order to talk to a person, you have to pay.  When One-Night-Stand charges you, that shows up on your credit card statement either as a payment portal or as a daiting site.  Again, so much for discretion.

OK-Cupid

You go through a lengthy on boarding process and have to anwer tons of questions.  You get to the spot where you have to include a photo of yourself, if you don't you can't go any further.  To get around this you take a photo and use photoshop, GIMP or another photo editing program and disguse yourself.  OK Cuoid take the info you entered and uses that to come up with a few matches.  If you want to see them you a have to pay.  From $50/mo to $80 for 3 months.  Talk about a rip-off.

Craigs List

They have a missed connections section that you can use to try and find someone.  Good luck.  You cannot upload photos so you can't see who youor considerring.  And they have some buill shit restrictions that can get your posting removed even if it is clean.  At least it is free, useless but free.

Ashley Madison

The last one I went to was the great and almighty Ashley Madison.  The site that brought down Josh Dugger, praise the lord.  Registration is not bad.  The search engine leaves much to be desired.  But the big down side is the price.  OMG.  From $69 just to say 'hi' to $329 to chat and what have you.  They are way out there.  They are targeting the rich.  Not for me.  Screw that, I just want to get laid, not sent to the poor house.

Problem with all of these sites is payment and they accept credit cards which will show up on your monthly statement.  If you live alone, that is fine and dnady but if you have a wife or GF, then you can wind up with a real problem.  So if you used your credit card, you are waving a big red flag on your statement that you are looking to cheat.   One of the ways you can hide your tracks is to use a gift-card.  Buy one for cash and use it on-line.  But these sites do not take gift cards so you have to use your credit card.  You're screwed and not by being in bed.

It would be nice if these dating sites were more open and easier to use with serach enges that can drill down to a particualr town so you could find a lover, even a one night stand.  And to offer the ability to use gift cards so you can hide your tracks.  And the biggie, get rid of the fucking chatbots and stop ripping off horny people.