I love my local dogging site and have had lots fun there but not as often as I would like. I'm not looking to change anyone or be changed. I value intelligence and creativity but I am open-minded about others level of perception, and of what creativity and intelligence means to them. Like everyone I have my moments of overwhelming confidence, understanding and also doubt. I believe in comfortable silences, confidence but not arrogance, people who are smarter than average and in control of themselves not others. Interview with Secretlover6900> What do you enjoy most about your current job? I have one? Your attitude to your job should not reflect who you are as a person because we all need money to survive on this crazy planet unfortunately. Like everyone else my job is what I do to afford the little thing in life that matter. What are your favourite leisure activities? Lots of things, Salsa and Merengue dancing, live comedy performances, the great out doors, Hill walking, movies, meeting and making new friends, sound engineering in a recording studio with creative people, composing computer generated music on my PC, conversation. The world is a big place to run out of things to do. Where in the world are your favourite places? Why? Whoo? Me? Are you joking with this question DUH!!! Just get an atlas and have a good hard look at how many places there are DUH! Then again I do like my bed under the right circumstances ha-ha Loch Lomond is where I go to recharge my proverbial batteries and escape from "The Concrete Jungle" and has been for years. What do you like most about where you currently live? I am within driving distance of beautiful locations with stunning scenery, city life my family & friends and a local dogging site LOL I live on a hill so don't need to worry about being flooded out ha-ha atcodotuk lol Where in the world would you love to visit? DUH! All of it? like I said it's a big world. What would you do on an ideal date? Talk and cut out the bullshit, then gently place a blindfold on whoever is with me and go for a drive Mmmm fun. What are you looking for in a partner? Youthfulness in spirit, attitude, trust, honesty, passion, eroticism, kinkiness, adventurousness, sexual juices flowing, sexuality, submissiveness, understanding, humorous, happy, Stupid question really as it presupposes that we are all the same in that we are looking for something specific. I live with a partner who is sexually un-adventurous but never the less a loving beautiful person so discretion is the better part of valour and that is very important to me as much as her so, Please remember that.