In the course of my sexual life so far, I have noticed that men with small penises have less sex but more fetishes. On the one hand, I refer to experience reports and chats from and with other men. On the other hand, I refer to the exchange of experiences with acquaintances and my own sexual experiences.

If you search the internet for topics such as feminisation, chastity, humiliation, etc., without reading the texts, you will already notice in the pictures that men who have these inclinations are often below average. If you read the corresponding texts or experience reports, you will find that these men have little or no sex but many other fetishes. Very often these men are also bisexual or have strong gay tendencies.

These men are often very insecure about women because of their below-average endowment. If they then become intimate with a woman, this insecurity often leads to impotence. At the crucial moment, they don't get an erection because they are afraid that they won't be able to satisfy the woman properly or that the woman might find the penis too small. The whole thing becomes a vicious circle which ultimately leads to little or no sex.

These men, and I include myself here, develop more and more fetishes after a long period of sexual frustration. Above all, they are fetishes that require little to no sexual action from women. They start preferring to pleasure women's feet rather than a woman's breasts or vagina. They prefer to satisfy a woman orally instead of being orally satisfied by her. They prefer to masturbate instead of having sex themselves and even treat their wife to a lover. And/or they develop the thought of becoming a sex object themselves, a woman with certain equipment, a sissy who submissively fulfils women or men everything for their sexual satisfaction.

A long time ago, I often talked to acquaintances about our sex life and learned that they are not exactly averagely endowed and have relatively little or no sex with their partners. These acquaintances have often visited playhouses or developed fetishes that do not correspond to the average fetish that is still socially accepted. One of their partners was even relatively open with me about her partner and his small penis and the associated low sexual satisfaction on her part.

I know from my ex-partners and my current wife that I also have a lot of problems satisfying a woman. Not only is my penis below average and the ladies probably don't feel it too much, but I often come too quickly and my penis often doesn't get really hard. For me, too, it all developed the way I've seen it with other men.

I began to accept and even enjoy my existence with my "small cock" and the "small cock fetishes". It started to excite me when my wife told me that I couldn't satisfy her properly, that my cock was a cornichon and that I looked good in lingerie and with painted toenails. I also had less and now no (vaginal) sex with my wife. I get my satisfaction from the satisfaction of my wife or the other person. The whole thing increased to such an extent that I actively worked on being able to perform even worse sexually.

So I managed to shrink my penis by almost 2cm through various "penis shrinking" methods, applied over a longer period of time. I also worked on being able to cum even faster. Now times of less than 30 seconds are almost the norm. As a side effect, in most cases my penis no longer gets really hard even though I am fully aroused.

It should also be mentioned that penis size is also an issue for women. Very large penises are more painful than pleasurable for a woman. But below-average penises are not very pleasurable for women either, neither from the sight nor from the feeling of satisfaction. Anonymous surveys of women also show that the penis they want is larger than average. Those who read in magazines etc. that the size of the penis is not decisive write this for moral reasons or, if a man has written the text, because the writer himself is not better equipped than the average. Even my wife, who is not very cock-fixated, says that above-average penises are more fun to look at and generate much more pleasure than small penises.

I think that if you have a small penis, you should be aware of its advantages. Just as not everyone owns a big house or a big car, not everyone can own a big penis. Everyone has to do what is best for them given the circumstances. If the best thing for you sexually is to indulge in fetishes that benefit "small-dicked" people, you should consider this instead of being permanently sexually frustrated and blaming the ladies for not getting sexual satisfaction.